Cougar wants me...I think?

[shone719]

I am recently divorced and have decided to get back out there only to find that I seem to have forgotten a thing or two. Basically at my job the other day, I was helping a woman 14 years my senior and during our conversation I noticed her looking down from my eyes a couple of times (my crotch??). Then a couple weeks later we ran into each other again, only to find that she did the same thing. Now is this normal or is she honestly checking me out, sizing me up or just a normal occurance?

[bayridgebabe]

I can't answer for that women but maybe you have your wires crossed. I can only answer for me & the LAST thing I would do is check out a guys crotch, his eyes YES his crotch NO WAY, again this is me not her.

[vita]

It's impossible to tell if she's interested. I'm inclined to agree with CJ that the c-o-c-k is not usually the thing a woman will check out as a first step. I think you need more signs as to whether she's interested or not. Engage her more in flirty conversation and see where that takes you.

[charliex]

i see two options, although im sure theres many more! you can whip it out next time she peeks down at it, or you can remind her that youre eyes are up here!!!

i would most likely just ask her if she's seeing anyone, it'll let her know her personal life is of interest to you, and she should pick up on it pretty quick and go with it, unless she's tiimid, but if she's looking at your package then im sure she's not!

[cherryaa]

I agree it does not sound like timidity is the issue. lol

[rhonda2]

maybe she was checking out your shoes rather than your crotch. Shoes are very important to women. After their eyes, its the next think I look at.

[vita]

Originally Posted by rhonda2

maybe she was checking out your shoes rather than your crotch. Shoes are very important to women. After their eyes, its the next think I look at.

Hahaha. That made me laugh. Your eyes go in quite different places though...don't they?

I never check out anyone's shoes. It's probably the last thing I think of.

Eyes and hair are the first.

[bigglesworth]

Well, the old saying is you can tell the size of a man's penis by the size of his shoes. LOL don't know if that is entirely true, but I do check the shoes too.

[wetnwild]

Originally Posted by rhonda2

maybe she was checking out your shoes rather than your crotch. Shoes are very important to women. After their eyes, its the next think I look at.

Shoes are not important at all to me. Neither is the car they drive. I look at their eyes and then whatever other attractive feature they may have and then I usually end up focusing on whatever their most attractive feature may be.

[rhonda2]

Oh Wetnwild.... "shoes not important to me?.....You would be the first woman I know that shoes are not important. Not being critical, just expressing doubt.