Initial worries?

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These questions are directed more so to the female population.

Q1: What are your initial worries when dating a younger man?

Q2: And if you have any, how have they effected your love life?

Q3: How many fingers am I holding up?

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Q1: My initial concern would be the same as with any relationship... what's the goal of this connection and is it mutual.
Q2: For me communication is the key ~ honest upfront communication, so that time and effort are not wasted on something that's not mutually beneficial.
Q3: Three

Q1: Is my hair OK? Am I wearing clean underwear? Did I remove all traces of that spinach salad from my teeth?
Q2: Bad hair days definitely ruin a date. I always wear clean underwear so I can't answer that one. So far, no spinach in teeth.
Q3: One....probably the middle one....heehehe

[evie]

My concerns are with the younger women I work with. Am experiencing beautiful lust or guy I work with and it seems reciprocal... But these girls seem to be determined to put a spanner in the works...some days the *****ing is awful. Any advice on how to handle this?

[genevieve717]

1. Cr@p. I don't look 20 anymore. Oh well.

2. This type of negative thinking leads to more negativity.. I try not to indulge in it, and figure if he's asked me out, he must be attracted to something, and not care that I don't look 20 anymore! :P

3. One finger.. the middle one for all the older women/younger men naysayers! Woot.

3. Darn it where are my glasses? I don't see any fingers up I only see a big gun.[/QUOTE]


I hear that all the time from women.

Q1: What are your initial worries when dating a younger man?
I don't worry about it. Why worry when you can enjoy. The only issue I have is when people judge me for prefering younger men. For some reason it's ok for men to date/marry women over half their age but not ok for a women so people question me a lot about "Why" "Whats Wrong With You?" that kind of thing.

Q2: And if you have any, how have they effected your love life?
Other than other people having to have an opinion when not asked, it doesn't effect me. I live my life the way I like to!

Q3: How many fingers am I holding up?
I don't know, why don't you show me?

[lady_l]

I wish I was more like you guys!! I am attracted to younger men all the time, but I feel like a freak, and am definitely too worried about what other people will think. Dumb, I know, and I'm trying to get over it, that's why I joined on here...

[lady_l]

I am 42, but look about 25-30, or so most people tell me. I feel I have much more in common with someone who is 25-30 than men my age. I am wanting to go out and see places, people,etc. not stay at home in front of the tv 24/7!!!

[jgapp]

I have a friend at work who dates older women and I ask why he does it. He said, basically older women know what they want and will take care of you. I'm still confuse about that still because he doesn't really give me much detail. I'm guessing women who are young they like to explore and don't know exactly what they are looking maybe at the age of 30+, I can be wrong about this, guys never get things right anyways. what are you thought?