What makes a guy want to ask a girl out for another date?

[phxgirl1]

Any guys with opinions on this? Inquiring minds want to know, what does it take for you to ask a woman out for another date?

All opinions are certainly appreciated.

[drazic1986]

Attitude. The attitude of the lady, wouldn't want to arrange another date with someone who has a bad attitude without genuine reason now, would we?

[lunamor]

What do you consider "bad attitude"?

[drazic1986]

Well, I'll speak for myself regarding, but I see attitude as an umbrella for a catchment of all different descriptives, personally for me, if someone was upbeat, (positive, lively, eager, communicative etc) I'd regard that as good attitude.

If one was to exert negative aspects on said date, without genuine reason, then I'd consider this to be a factor contributing toward influence of my not wanting to re-arrange a further date.

Factors could be unnecessarily introvert despite the "ice having been broken", or uncalled for contempt / hatred for things / people, etc. (I have experienced the prior before)

[lunamor]

I agree, those things would turn me off, too. I wouldn't want to meet a second time.

[cherryaa]

People who bring negativity to any situation re generally a turn off for me.

[emmanuel123]

turn off To me while be when yuh don't believe what I tell you.. doubting leads to distrust

[phxgirl1]

You have great and pleasing conversation, perhaps a romantic kissing session after the date, are you going to ask her out again? Or was the kissing just in the heat of the moment and you're not going to contact her ever again? What does it take for you to want to see her again?

The hot kisses, the great conversation, the thought of the next meeting, the feeling in your belly that this is a woman that you'd just like to be with her again, or not?

What is it after a date or two?

[_CougarHunting_]

( 1 ). Dress for the occasion
( 2 ). Be yourself
( 3 ). Be pleasant to be around
( 4 ). Compliment tit for tat
( 5 ). Your choice of holding hand's or not. < Personal Space Factor >
( 6 ). Hold a intelligent conversation and try to listen to what he has to say as well.
( 7 ). Kissing at your own discretion of course. < Personal Space Factor Again >
( 8 ). Be a lady but don't be afraid to show boat here and there. This goes with # 2 be yourself.
( 9 ). Be willing to go place's with him at your discretion of course again.
( 10 ). Don't always expect him to pick up the tab but expect him to do his part as well. The first date should be all him. The second is at your discretion.

[aidan]

For me to ask a girl/woman out for a future date it all comes down to personality. If she has a great personality I can overlook those little things that can be annoying... but if she has a personality that is lacking I won't ask her out again....