What do men REALLY want?

[fashion20]

I'm a bit confused. Men say they want someone who they can talk to, is pretty, sexy, nice, intelligent, sincere, good morals, fun, funny and I'm all of the above. I have a huge crush on this younger man at work and I thought he had one on me. He compliments me on a daily basis, checks me out all the time, has nice conversations with me, said I was beautiful, emails and texts me, shares his interests with me but hasn't asked me out. This has been going on for 8 months. Men, help me out here. Thanks.

[drazic1986]

Next time he states you're beautiful, this that & the other, ask why he's not done anything about it yet, then.

This way you'll find out if he's in it for the chase, whether he's a player, or whether he's genuine.

[_CougarHunting_]

Yes I, do agree do get your bust in his face and get straight to the point .

Okay I, know that sounded rather forward and naughty but grab his attention.

Sound's to me he's interested and your wanting to hook him.

Well i'd say you best get your best bait out and hook him good.

Or

As they say Pounce .

No more beating around the bushes either find out his intention's or he may never come clean or may want too.

[fashion20]

Thank you guys for your responses.

[_CougarHunting_]

your very welcome fashion20

[english]

Depends on the man.

[sexy_pleasure]

Most people, if we like someone we behave really nice, flirty, kind, assuring and attentive to the person we are attracted to but this is not always the case.
I have learned that there are these type of people that guide their mannerisms, behavior and appearance by the way they want to be preserved from others, with out taking in consideration the wrong signals and outcomes that this may cause, even if this outcome is not what they are looking for. Dum but it is true.
There are these types of people that are very nice towards others… Kind, attentive, flirty, assertive and even sexy, not to hook up with anyone! But for the only reason to be accepted and be perceived positively from others.
Yes, not the right thing to do but they are there…
Good idea to call him on that, just ask him straight out “What is it that he really wants”.

[naughtyfun]

Originally Posted by fashion20

I'm a bit confused. Men say they want someone who they can talk to, is pretty, sexy, nice, intelligent, sincere, good morals, fun, funny and I'm all of the above. I have a huge crush on this younger man at work and I thought he had one on me. He compliments me on a daily basis, checks me out all the time, has nice conversations with me, said I was beautiful, emails and texts me, shares his interests with me but hasn't asked me out. This has been going on for 8 months. Men, help me out here. Thanks.

Depends on the situation. If I meet a woman who is flirty and fun, I'll think about having sex with her, and I'll aim to get that... It would seem natural with her. Plus, if she's older, that's very arousing. If she's quiet and serious, then I'll just want her to be nice, etc. Neither are 'wrong'.

[chrisl1981]

Sounds like one of you has got to make a move, ask him to meet you - somewhere at your convenience!

[fashion20]

We set up a date then he cancelled. Called him on it and just got bs excuses and now I've moved on.