Difficulty with the future

[aprilaries]

something I have learned in a harsh way is that no one is guaranteed a long life. we don't know what tomorrow will bring. that is why I intend to enjoy each day I get and forget about the what ifs.

[Lindsey9907]

OP- As a previous poster stated, a younger woman can't guarantee you a child. I became infertile in my twenties. It was hard to accept, but I am upfront with the men I date that children are not an option for me anymore. If you have been involved with this woman for a few months, it is time to sit down and at least find out her age and if children are an option for the future. If you see yourself developing strong feelings for her and possibly love and a future, there are other options for children if she can't have her own. But the point is you need to talk to her about it.

My boyfriend and I had this discussion this past weekend and he decided that a future with me means more to him than future children that he doesn't even know. Just something to think about...

[_CougarHunting_]

Yes there is no gaurentee's in life . Just live it to the fullest . Enjoy what you got and have .

[KnowHope]

I'll ponder on it RedFyre.