Would you? Could you?

[drazic1986]

Ok, firstly I'll start by assuring that I haven't anything against gay men, or women who are lesbians.

In my time of using various sites, I've encountered numerous profiles with bi in the username, & the profile too, has confirmed that they are bisexual.

Now I KNOW that we cannot help who we are attracted to, but would you personally date / form a relationship with someone who was openly bisexual?

I do understand that being bisexual doesn't lead to assume that they're going to be any less faithful, I am merely interested in views.

Without sounding narrow minded I WOULDN'T personally form a relationship with anyone who was bisexual.

[bayridgebabe]

I would as a "friend" only. I do have friends male & female alike who are "bi" again they are just platonic friends. I would not & am not interested in a real relationship with anyone that is bi. Not my cup of tea I am a woman & I want a man who would be mine & mine only, not someone who would be interested sexually in another male (or female for that matter). Then again, that is just me, to each his/her own desires, that's what makes the world go round. Different strokes for different folks as the saying goes.

[drazic1986]

Thank you for your reply, it is appreiciated.

[cub_lvr]

I wouldn't be interested in having a relationship with a man who is bi either. its just what I prefer. I do respect everyone's choices though.

[Elliott_t]

Ive been involved with a girl who was bi before, tbh it made no difference to me she was interested in me i trusted her it was just a normal relationship.

[lady_emerson]

Do you like racing cars or Mini-Vans for the family?
Do you like fast food or a slow relaxing dinner presented with style?
Do you enjoy sitting at home with the family or hanging out with friends?
We all have out comfort zones and I would have never thought of pleasure from another woman 6 years ago.
Just like ths site here called "Go Cougar". life is about enjoying the moment and finding someone who is compatable to you.
I am not Lesbian, GAWD no, I enjoy men.
My taste in men has changed as I have grown older, as I can say most women here feel.
I do not want a fat llazy man who sits around, drinks beer and wants me to wait on his every need or desire.
Sexuality is like a personal state of mind.
freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose...

[phxgirl1]

My idea of someone that is bisexual is that my competition increased dramatically. Nothing else.

It really is all about the person.

Bisexuality doesn't in any term of the word mean infidelity. It means the bisexual person is open to a relationship with a man OR a woman. Not both at one time in theory if the person has the mind of monogamy. If there isn't a commitment then the bisexual person will be dating anyone, as any of us do.

I'm not sure what the issue is of the OP. The increased competition maybe?

Care to elaborate why you're so worried about it drazic1986?

[drazic1986]

Phxgirl I'd elaborate if I could, but there's no hidden agenda or motive behind my question, it's merely that. A question, wanting other people's views.

Oh and regarding the issue being increased competition maybe, sorry, but that's not the case, decreased competition, indeed. Shallow minded? No. Prejudice? Nope. Friends? Indeed, but sorry, no to a relationship.

[phxgirl1]

ok, just wondered

[bayridgebabe]

I like your answer drazic, I feel the same way. No prejudice here @ all, just not my cup of tea. Everyone has their own preferences, mine is a man that only wants to be with a woman who is not bi-sexual & is into a ONE woman relationship, monogomy (sp) @ it's best.