Long distance relationships

[PetiteGrl50]

Originally Posted by cub_lvr

How would you handle a very strong attraction with someone who's not in your area? Do long distance relationships make any sense? I think it is hurtful and torturing to be in touch with cubs from other states or even other countries without being able to personally meet. What if you really like each other and want to be together but can't meet anytime soon for various reasons? I've tried doing this more than once and have found that is not the best choice. Would like to hear comments from cougars and cubs about this issue and how would you handle a long distance relationship or even start one.

Well, coming from experience, I am nuts about this young irish boy and he lives in Ireland. We have been talking for 8 months now. He and I are getting along great. The distance gives me the freedom to do what I want when I want; however I do miss him when I don't hear from him. It really doesn't matter to me where he lives. I care a great deal about him and it's who he is as a man that matters to me. We have a strong friendship and I know in my heart that one day he and I will unite. It will be so worth the wait. I am not looking to get married again as I have been down that horrible road, but he and I can just enjoy the time we have together. Life is short....you gotta be happy!