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Old 07-19-2008, 01:17 AM
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Frankly, I rather have a guy tell me he is looking for a FWB type of situation than act like they want a relationship, just to get in a girls pants. Then it is up to the girl to go with that or not. Lying and cheating offend me not the truth. Not saying I would always choose that type of relationship but I have in the past for personal reasons and location reasons. Its about respect more than anything.
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Old 07-22-2008, 02:31 AM
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most of my "relationships" are open ended in that I generally meet people when travelling for work. (I'm away from home one week a month) I'm not sure whether there can truely ever be "no strings", I love seeing people I've met before again but mostly it's a year or so later and they have moved on.
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Old 07-23-2008, 07:06 AM
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Come down to SoCal much?
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Old 07-23-2008, 11:41 AM
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In our relationship (age gap of 40 years) we understand it is somewhat on loan. And although sex is important it is not all, we do not 'live' together, but I stay with her almost all the time and our relationship is in full public (I am almost at the age of her grand children) and (almost) accepted. We have different cycles but we (I) will not have sex with any other woman - and it is so rewarding with her so I do not need so.
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Old 07-24-2008, 10:10 AM
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I must admit that I'm intrigued by people who can just do flings. Must be liberating. I've tried, and it does not work for me. I could not even proceed with it. No appeal for me. I still prefer quality over quantity, at the risk of being less experienced. I guess people do differ. I'm sure you'll eventually find someone with similar interest. Keep searching! Things never come easy in this life!
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Old 07-24-2008, 09:21 PM
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Quote:
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Frankly, I rather have a guy tell me he is looking for a FWB type of situation than act like they want a relationship, just to get in a girls pants. Then it is up to the girl to go with that or not. Lying and cheating offend me not the truth. Not saying I would always choose that type of relationship but I have in the past for personal reasons and location reasons. Its about respect more than anything.
I absolutely agree with Lisa. Don't lie/misrepresent the truth just to score. Be honest what you're looking for and let the other person decide if that is ok with them. Dishonesty is the real dealbreaker.
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