33 years old... married.. obsessed with older women

[pba06]

I wholeheartedly agree with you about there being more than enough young, gorgeous, and well-mannered SINGLE men to go around. Why deal with married ****??!! To each his own, but as a woman who was cheated on by her ex-husband who "appeared" to be the perfect guy, I'll have no part of that bullsh*t. I will never do to any woman and children that which has been done to me and my children. Is that judgmental? I don't care! !!

I have four pages of blocked guys I've met in the past from this site. Not sure what's going on, but lately I've just been encountering only nice and polite guys. I'm thrilled!! Perhaps they've been doing a bit of reading here. I'm just happy to be attracting the good ones instead of the pigs.

I would be interested in the new thread idea, too. I come from a "traditional" family. Two parents who were married until death, church-going, middle-class, etc. I think I like younger men because they look so good!

[pba06]

I also can't stand to be controlled. I think that's a huge part of it, too. YM are easier to deal with and more laid-back.

PBA-You're still just a beautiful "chika" to this more "mature" vintage....;-> When I was in my early 40's(back in the early 90's, long before cougars...lol)I was having the time of my life with a guy 21 years younger than me....woooo-hoooo! He was SINGLE, beautiful, respectful, loving and we had a blast together! Some of the best times of my life!

Being controlled has always been an issue with me too as I have always been fiercely independent and firmly believe in "partnership." Walking side by side as equals who bring our own unique perspective to a "romantic" connection. Respecting, admiring and uplifitng one another as it only enhances the joy, passion and fulfillment that is possible when two people are able to achieve true "partnership."

I also agree that there seem to be many more decent guys on here lately. Could be now that the furor is dying down over all of this, the sincere ones are finally standing out. I'm so glad for that!

Runnin With The Big Dogs.....
RR

[jaittewrott]

Hello my friends

[uknwho]

Wow what an emotionally charged thread, I am sure that everyone is entitled to their own opinions and if this pig wants to do this then he is entitled to it, who are we to judge him for the pig he is .... lol.... Everyone is entitled to freedom of speech, he may therefore share his views on sex and marriage with us and we may judge him on the type of person he is....freedom of speech, it's a human right!

[kmussekl]

Right, there is nothing so rewarding than to be together with a mature woman, that's why I am here.

I have had a relationship with a woman of 67 and it was fantastic both in and out of the bedroom, yes the sex was outstanding for both of us. I hope to meet a new mature woman here, but it should be more than just sex.

Are you married? Do you have a profile posted? How shall we get to know you?
RR

[marsha]

Originally Posted by loaferspoons

I'm a 33 year old college professor, and I'm happily married with kids... but I've had multiple affairs with older women, usually in their 50s. Invariably, these are among the most rewarding relationships I've had, and the sex is uniformly spectacular. My own mom is 54, and I've had amazing relationships with a handful of women older than her.

What is it about you girls? Your self-confidence? Your wisdom? I just can't stay away from you

I feel very sorry for your poor wife and kids, you say you are happily married, if I were her I would get happily unmarried very quickly, poor thing.

I feel sorry for your poor wife. Marriage vows are
important and I feel our board is for single members.
I just hope you are not a professor of ethics.
It is all very sad. The divorce rate in our country
is 60%. As a woman, I would never date or see
a married man. I believe in karma. I studied
Hinduism under the guidance of Gurudeva from
Hinduism Today. What comes around goes around?
There is enough pain and heartache in the world.
I pray to God I never even accidently date a married
man. He belongs to his wife and children, not me.
What matters to me when I meet someone is that
they are single and have integrity. As for
members of the board, I extend my heart of compassion
for those who were victims of infidelities. It not only
hurts the spouse but the children. I despise selfish hearts!
Yours truly,
Sabrina

I like younger thinking guys irrespective of their physiological age. Some young guys are old already in their mindset. I guess it's because I'm playful, young in my thinking that I naturally get attracted by someone with the same mindset whether he's 20, 30 or 40. As regards the devastation due to infidelity I never realised that could even prevent people from making their own families. So sorry for all of you who went through this suffering! My heart is with you, and I hope you'll recover eventually and free yourself of any baggage.