Is taking it slow bad??

[champlakers]

I met a beautiful woman, and she is 40 has 2 children living with her. She is funny, beautiful, smart, and sexy. I have no problem with anything about her life or anything. But I dont know how far to go with dating issues... Like she kissed me cause she knows I'm kinda uncomfortable with "making moves". I dont want to disrespect her by moving to fast our lose her by moving to slow... We've gone on a few dates, and she does stuff like brings food for lunch to my work... I know she likes me and vice versa. I just want to know is it terrible to move to slowly?

[laine175]

I think there are no rules and you should go at a pace thats comfortable for you both, just make sure you talk to her and explain what you have written here to her.....she will I'm sure appreciate your honesty and at the same time will not be sat wondering if you really like her or is she getting the signals wrong!!!

Communication is the key.....good luck!

[champlakers]

Absolutely I talked to her about it and she thought it was cute, at least thats what she said... So the next time we went out she aggressively kissed me I mean it felt good to kiss her but at the same time I feel funny not being aggressive but I also feel if I am aggressive it might give her the wrong signals...

[wetnwild]

I think the fact that she kissed you says a lot. I also think its really sweet that you don't want to move TOO fast with her. I agree with Laine though, go at a pace that is comfortable for you BOTH and yes, communication is the key!

Good luck!

[champlakers]

Thanks... So far it seems like a great situation... The communication we have so far seems to be perfect... Shes just so direct but yet so sweet...

[lynda]

Gosh sounds like me!!! hahaha
The ladies are giving you great advice go at your pace and let her go hers. She will let you know if you need to move a little faster. Good luck.....

[champlakers]

Thank you Lynda....