The age difference.

[culgerald]

I have been really fascinated about dating older women. I have dated a few older girls and the relationships have been interesting. The comfort and excitement every time made me want more and more.. My last real love is married now but we still communicate a lot. She treated me with respect and always paid attention to every detail. She tells me she still loves me and always wants to see me smile. She makes me feel like turning back the hands of time and re-living those moments we had shared. She was just 3 years older than i was.
Is there a minimum age difference to a cougar/cub relationship?

[bigglesworth]

I would not consider her a cougar, usually there is a 10 to 15 year difference in age, to be qualified as a cougar/cub relationship.

[lynda]

I agree with biggles. If your exgf was not 40+ then she is not a cougar. I think it depends on the people to make anything work.

[culgerald]

Thanks for the replies.

[sweet4533]

yes i agree with the other posters 40 years and over 10 fifteen years age difference