Question

[praetorian]

This is a particular question, I need toughtful answers, if anyone might want to give an answer, consider that at first.
So, the situation is this: 2 persons, man and woman, 10.000 km apart and they want to meet each other.
What is the best strategy to implement:
a) setting a trip to a place located at half of the distance, where the 2 persons can meet;
b) the man should take the whole responsability and just fly 10.000 km, over seas, mountains and oceans, to meet the lady;
c) giving up the idea;
d) any other ideas?

[violet]

Can either or both of them afford the trip half or all the way? Are either or both of them willing to do this? If they do meet and hit it off, is there any possibility for either or both of them to relocate to be with the other? If the answer to any of these is no, do they still want to do it?

[praetorian]

Why would I bother discussing the odds of a situation, if the situation would not have a firm structure so far? For this particular situation I gave you the necessary statistics to be able to choose an answer or to think of an answer.
If you wish to debate in here the idea of "relationships at distance" with the others, you could simply mention it.
Thank you.

[violet]

Sheesh, I was just trying to help. Nevermind.

[praetorian]

I know and Thank you.
Those are the basic questions that someone must have in mind before taking the next steps, mentioned by me. Those questions go along with :
" Is he/she worth it?
Can I trust him/her?
With regards for the emotion, is there stability in thought and not just a crazy attitude?
Do we live the moment?
Are we eternal?"
I could post another hundreds of them questions, but why?

[lunamor]

Since two people are involved, there is no strategy to implement - it's a decision taken after examining the situation together.

And that will also reveal how much each person is willing to do (or not).

[praetorian]

I wonder, why there is so much distraction from the main exposed situation?!
Why do you ladies stress the idea -"they must talk about it"-, while my subject was not loud, but simple and very clear in its specifications.
I wonder what guys think about it. Guys feel free to share opinions.

[lunamor]

If it was so clear and schematic, there wouldn't be three choices and you wouldn't be asking :P

Anyway, yeah see what guys say.

[praetorian]

The point-blank 3 choices.

[lunamor]

OK, straight out:

b) the man should take the whole responsability and just fly 10.000 km, over seas, mountains and oceans, to meet the lady;