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[youngman4older]

hey ladies, 25 m from gainesville florida here looking for an older woman. i have yahoo messanger with webcam, yahoo id is youngman4olderwomen07

[taylor_michael85]

i think he may like older woman?? iono..just a feeling i have

anyways with the webcam thing...i would say or guess it is due to the fact that most people when they say they have a cam it means IE..."lemme show you my cock" specially when they use it with yahoo im...not saying that everyone with a cam does it is more of a generalization with people on yim that ive expierenced

I'm really resisting the urge to make a snide remark about showing off pet roosters...

A little more than I'd care to admit :-p

[deets007]

Being a country girl raised next to farms I can attest to pet roosters...of the aviary (sp?)variety.LOL One of my friends could hypnotize hers and put him into a trance. Interesting to say the least.

[xoticbrandi]

The web cam is a great tool if used properly, but a lot of times people ask
that because they want to give you the "once over" to see if YOU'RE good
enough or sexy enough for them to even talk to. That's arrogant, indeed.
Because it shouldn't be soleyabout that. Then there's the ones who do
want to unwrap their little packages for you and oooooh, ahhhh baby all
over the place...a total turn off! I have one and I use it when I want to, but
I don't just off the bat go ,here...take a looky and see. Through my cable
carrier, I have protection and distortions that bounce signals through their regulators.
So they know exactly who it is and precisely where they're located down to the
zip code and street. You have to be safe no matter what you do. Even meeting
people at a coffee shop has to be a security run. Seriously, take no chances. I
am a very precautionary person. I have a lot of safeguards in place before I do
anything with anybody. They don't know it, but I do and that's the only way I'd
ever agree to meeting someone, chatting with someone, or definitely cam chatting.

As for pix, I don't have a problem with them although I do understand bad experiences
people have with that aspect of it. I've been in books, mags, vids,fashion shows and
on-line catalogs and all kinds of things. Not that I'm a celeb or anything, but I do make
a (very) few $'s from my image. So I really don't post anything I don't want circulated
all over the world. And if I were a celeb, most of the judgemental ones would be singing
my praises, especially since it seems all you have to do these days is have a (leaked)
sex tape in order to become instantly famous. Look at the prostitute with the Gov...She'll
get her own show, a book deal and a mansion in B Hills...So, no I'm not famous, and my
pix don't make a fool a fool,ok!

Part of the reason I haven't found anyone here is because I get a lot of messages
from the annonymous fellas who say they want to chat. I don't really talk to them.
I tell them I need to see the face and I need to know something about them. That's
when they offer the web cam and I decline. For one thing it isn't an identifier because
it could be anyone else in the world sittin in for a friend. Secondly, it's rude to ask
that before you even have one conversation with anyone. Lastly, without a profile,
it's not a substitute.

If you're smart and you've been on this planet for while and are not new off the show-
room floor, then you know the score. I just think the cam thing is ok, if you know who
the hell you're talking to. But without ever having any dialogue what so ever, or even
having exchanged info for a while, so you can have your computer stamp their informa-
tion, I wouldn't recommend doing it.

XB Tip d'jour: Webcams operate all day if you keep them plugged in whether you are
signed in or not. Think of your telephone. It operates all day even if you don't talk
on it, right? Most have caller I.D., right? Even the ones that hide their identity aren't
hidden from the phone company/law enforcement. So if something as simple as a
telephone can do that, think of what advanced communications are capable of. Cams
even pick up conversations in your home when you are not logged on to anything. THEY EAVES DROP ON YOU ALL DAY IF LEFT PLUGGED IN.

They can also be controlled remotely from ANOTHER PERSON'S I.P. ADDY. So if you
don't want to have a "Peeping Tom", keep your lens pointed up to your ceiling (which
is what I do) and/or unplug it, which is what I do when I'm not using it. That way your privacy is guaranteed and YOU ARE IN CONTROL . This is something
I learned from a friend who is the VP of Internet Protocol and Intelligence in a multi million dollar corporation. He is responsible for all communication and for ever nickle and dime
that flows through those doors. So the dude knows what he's talking about. For what
it's worth, I hope you enjoy your experiences and be safe. Just don't randomly cam...it
could be a scam!

Kiss, Kiss
Xoticbrandi

[layderaven]

Country girl here too. I doubt that I could see anything on his webcam to compair to the stud horses I see on my farm. lol

[hot_rider]

In light of recent events, I now insist on a half minute face viewing via cam before I will chat with a new guy.

Sometimes the cam is a handy tool.

YEA SO ALL YOU LADIES OUT THERE stop buggin me to turn my web cam on!!! LOL SIKE YOUR MIND!!! Ok but for real, No meat gazers...thats bad.

[lilith]

Thanks for all of your posts - this is an interesting thread. Thanks for the security information; I never keep mine plugged in, and don't use it much. I have to know it's gonna be reciprocal, which too often it isn't.

Gals, never let the guys talk you into doing something you're not comfortable with. It's fine to play, but if they aren't willing to reciprocate, or say they don't have a cam, then don't be surprised if you get burned. Or disappointed.

On the other hand it's nice to know who you're talking to, but only if you have a regular conversation can you know for sure it's really the same guy.

I recently got stung by a guy who said he was 19 & his pix sure made him look like he was older (if they were really him), but it turns out he was 16. SO watch out. It's a wild & woolly world out there.

Lilith-I hope you reported that guy. I want to bring up a point here too. Most of the members here are American. We have some very zealous law enforcement that comb the internet looking for child predators. You have all seen the stories, I'm sure. If these guys keep slipping through the "screening" process here, we could very well wind up under some serious scrutiny by these people.

I would advise ANYONE who gets contacted by an underage person or who suspects the person they are talking to is underage, report them immediately and cut off all communication with them. Just because this site originates outside of the US doesn't mean American law enforcement would have no jurisdiction. Be careful people. These underage people are considered "children" here in the US and we would be looked at as criminal predators.

RR