Guys, why are we attracted to older women?

[lllchristianlll]

For me, its because everyone my age in my area acts so frikkin fake (if I had a dime for every person I've seen in a starbucks pretending to read so that they look cool, I'd have bought a club by now and made every night a cougar night, lol.) and sleezy. Just walk in a movie theater on the opening night of Twilight and you'll see what I mean, and all these frikkin what do you call em, hipsters? Every lady I see that's my age is clung and committed to the latest fad. I've avoided relationships for this reason, and have decided to finally look for some maturity. That's my story, so why do the rest of you guys want to seek older companions? I'm new here by the way.

[dawson37]

Hi Christian fairly new to these forums myself.My reason for the attraction of older women is I feel safer emotionally,they are more caring feeling and more experience in life.I do tend to think they need lots of reassurance maybe more so cos some of them have had more hurt etc.Cougars are a huge attraction for me for those reasons.How old are you?

[ericpraslin1010]

I like older women because of their experience, wisdom.,., older women have a unique beauty and charm.,

[kingbaldur]

I like them because it's something about their maturity that I find alluring. I feel like they know what they want and they aren't quite so unstable as girls my own age, though I could be wrong.

[laine175]

I'm enjoying this thread....hi to the new guys....can you post some pics for us cougars to see please? otherwise...don't mind me guys

[lynda]

Texas woman sneaking in and like Laine don't mind me I will be sitting over in the corner just listening and enjoying what you guys have to say.

Hi ya new guys welcome! Please introduce yourselves over in introductions so us cougars can see who we are talking to.

[dawson37]

Thanks Laine you seem nice yourself.I'm a bit embarrassed about putting a picture on here but don't mind sending one There doesn't seem too many cougars on here does there?

[ericpraslin1010]

I heard this song a few days ago and i though i would share it with you guys.,., the song is in Spanish but in this site you can read the translated version.,. enjoy

Lady of the four decades (English) translation of the song senora (Spanish) from Ricardo Arjona lyrics

[houstoncougar]

Not to fond of the abdominal fat line but I think it's all in the translation. lol Now I will have to go find the song so I can hear it since I didn't see anywhere there to listen.

[adamb9761]

To be honest i find that older women are so much more appealing to me than girls my age, i think this has a lot to do with the differentiating levels of maturity, their sincerity and honest nature, their life experiences make them so intruiging and to be honest there is nothing more attractive than a fully developed woman. just the thought of being with a woman like laine for example is making me like jelly . i just feel that a younger man and older woman work for each other. oh how id love the company of an older woman, the intimacy shared is amazing