Are older women more dependable and non-drama?

[bayridgebabe]

Originally Posted by lynda

Artian that is a true statement. There is all kinds of crazies in all ages, men and women.

It really doesn't matter about the persons age or sex. Both sexes are capable of doing stupid/inconsiderate things to the other sex. IMHO I don't think age is much of a factor, if a person is a player or scared they will just do what they do best & mess with someones head. As for the older/MATURE woman grabbing you OP & taking him to the bedroom, well that's another topic & I am NOT going to give a response to that. Better to keep my mouth shut & my fingers off the keyboard on that one.

[lunamor]

Since drama is the subject, here's a variation: Drama Cat

[giant]

crazies in male and female and age, its just you find those ones who are so crazy they bring something new and exciting to the table and dependable

[lynda]

I am beginning you must be a brave man or got a little crazy yourself lol

[bigglesworth]

Is there sanity involved? I agree with Lynda, but I think fools rush in where Angles fear to tread.

[cutemaleguy]

From my experience I can agree that older women are more sophisticated, smarter, and don't have drama involved around them. I'm 24, but I've been told that I don't act my age (because I don't party, or drink, and that I'm looking to settle down and marry someone, plus I can carry a good conversation... basically I'm mature for my age), and I get along ALOT better with older women than I do with women my age or younger. RARELY have I ever came across an older women with the mentality of a teenager.

[cheshirecat]

Got to agree with what most are saying right now. Just as a younger guy can be more mature, and older woman can be immature. And I've experienced this first hand. Like most guys would say on here, I get along better with the older crowd than the younger.

Yes I like to drink, yes I like to party, yes I like to have a bit of an immature whack at something once in a while, but all in moderation. Despite the general beliefs most younger guys around here have, older women still like to drink, party and act silly - they just know where the right place and when the right time is; And this is what differentiates them from the other group of horrors we're comparing them to

Drama comes with any age range. The difference is how the dramas are handled.

[i_sing_4u]

Originally Posted by lunamor

Since drama is the subject, here's a variation: Drama Cat

How do you find such things? LOL I sent that one straightaway to my dad, the cat man. I think I watched ALL of them...what a hoot! It somehow took me to videos of cat toilet training, so I had the sick pleasure of watching a cat do his business and then try to use toilet tissue. I wonder if that's so healthy for the kitties, and then do I really want to use the same toilet as my cat?

Once again, I digress....I think we are more dependable and non-drama in general...I mean, we don't sweat the small stuff. OK, so sometimes I fall back into juvenile behavior and slap a label on it like "passion". The problem with being older for me is that I have total recall of the past, despite my determination to march forward. Some call it "baggage", but I dislike that word. I'd have to have been living in a cave all my life to not be carrying a little Samsonite at my age. Most of the time, and I say MOST because nobody's perfect, not even me...hehe...I just enjoy life and avoid anyone or anything that gets in my way while I'm trying to enjoy life's parade. In the end, we ALL end up in the same place, so I'm going to celebrate life, not mourn it. I prefer to live my life like a cat...noticing everything, and always taking time to plop in the middle of the proverbial laundry basket even when everyone else is running around kavetching about how bad their lives are. I've learned that we control our own life path, and knowing that makes me a much more sane person than I was at 25.

[gopuma]

I have to agree with Artian - it's true that you can get drama and unreliability in women of all ages. But one thing I can maybe understand about the core of what mnaz21 is saying is that it can (maybe) be harder for younger women to express themselves/vocalize their thoughts or insecurities.

Let's also not forget that one thing that may not have changed much over the years (not sure, just an assumption) is that females are raised to feel a level of uncomfortability and, in some respects, immense guilt surrounding sexual relationships (at least in America). And a result of that is often an inability to relax about the feelings when meeting a new potential mate/sex partner/etc.

I think the conventional thinking that women reach their sexual peak in their 30s is to do more with the comfortability with concepts of sexual matters, which comes with life experience really, moreso than the experience of sex itself. The end result would then easily be a more no nonesnse take on dating. Some women reach that comfortability in their 20s, others their 30s, and (judging from a few of my girlfriends) not until their 40s. It's a mixed bag really, but that's life .

[tonyinkcmo]

I've been on many dates with younger girls, never one with an older female. Every date I've been on however there was a game the girl played. Always a stupid one at that. Either head games, mind games, or games to try to see who is better or who is the one doing the other one a favor. It is the main reason I chose to stay single for 3 years. Yes, I miss having a girl there beside me, but I never miss the games. But I have talked to some of you females on here and I must say that you are all very much more mature than they are. I believe it has lots to do with life lessons and growing up.