I'm in love with a guy from across the pond

[sonia]

I wish you all the best Val and I hope it works out for you. And does this mean that you will be visiting Wales in the not too distant future? Its very beautiful ( some of it anyway!)

[bayridgebabe]

Val, good for you. For your sake I do hope this works out for you & him too. Everyone of us deserves to be happy & find "LOVE" give it & get it back. You are like me in a lot of ways & go head first into things, so just be careful. Wishing you (both) the BEST & hope he makes the trip to you first.

[valerie]

Sonia...he will most likely come here to the states first, simply because he doesn't want ME to do all the running! hehe However, I told him before that I want to see where at least SOME of my people come from....and have my pic taken under the Erwood sign! ;-)

[shortcake]

I am rooting for you and your guy. I think it is possible to find someone you are compatible with over the internet and when you meet in person it will be like meeting an old friend. Okay, 'old' is probably not the best choice of word but I hope you know what I mean.

[valerie]

Originally Posted by shortcake

I am rooting for you and your guy. I think it is possible to find someone you are compatible with over the internet and when you meet in person it will be like meeting an old friend. Okay, 'old' is probably not the best choice of word but I hope you know what I mean.

How sweet Shortcake....it's funny because that's how I feel....like he's an old friend that I've suddenly seen in a new light. The guys who get to me romantically have taken the time to get to my head first. My guy was smart enough to see this right away. We will both be migrating to a site that is supportive of couples in age gap relationships...yes, even long distance ones like ours. I will stop by to say hi to my sisters for awhile but I hope you understand that I need to go pretty soon.

****HUGS****

[tk81818]

What do you really want and will u be happy

[lunamor]

Yes, good luck val - I'm sure it's tough but on the bright side, with LDRs there's no STDs! Best wishes!

[valerie]

Originally Posted by tk81818

What do you really want and will u be happy

...is an example of why I need to LEAVE. Stupid little TROLLS.

[seagreen]

Valerie, good luck to you! I am very happy that you have found what you are seeking. So did I! I feel really blessed. It is not easy to find the right one, but when you do, you know it.

[valerie]

Aww thank you Seagreen! I'm so happy for you! .... and everyone else with constructive comments, thank you...doesn't mean you have to AGREE...I know you wish me and Mark the best.

Seagreen...Mark and I will be migrating to another site that is supportive of age gap relationships. I have been a member for years, but could never get anyone else to join with me. My darling boy only had to know that it would make me happy, and he signed up yesterday.

We are both fully aware of the challenges ahead and feel ready to meet them. We will be together when the our work schedules and budgets allow it! Time to start saving!

Sometimes I wonder what amazing thing I did to have met a man who loves every bit of me....all my little quirks....my often bigger-than-life persona....he loves all of it! I think of him and I am both in wonder and humbled by what the universe can bring us if we just ask, believe and receive.