Worst Break up.

[romandog]

So I thought I would start a thread for people who have had interesting break up experience.


I myself have yet to have one, but Just like where someone texts you. Anything fun like that.

[violet]

Originally Posted by romandog

I myself have yet to have one, but Just like where someone texts you. Anything fun like that.

Haha, this thread sounds like a real blast!

Ok, here's a weird one, mostly because of the most recent development. The guy I had just started to be serious with left the country to be close to his 3 step daughters (I encouraged him to do this, knowing it would mean LDR for us). About a week after he got there, he emails me (tried calling once first) that he was staying with his ex-wife and *she* decided that he shouldn't have any more contact with me while they were working things out (not between them though, supposedly they were living platonically, yeah right, and only together for the kid's sake). About 2 years later, I get an email from him checking to see if we were still "pals". And the most bizarre development of all...a couple of days ago, the ex-wife (who I've never met or talked to) sends me a friend request on facebook. Wtf?!

[romandog]

LOL. I have a story that is bad, but not exactly a break up. This chick and I were dating and everything was good. I felt wonderful about it. THEN, she kind of just drops off the face of the earth. Well come to find out, she fell in love with me SO MUCH she wanted space. Good I guess.. but she ignored me for a month and a half. I mean, I called a couple of times and texted a couple of times and just left it at that. By that time I had tried and didn't want to invade. I went on to date this other girl because she was willing to hang out and she actually talked to me. After I broke up with the second chick because she started to not really talk much. I found out about the fact that she just wanted space but didn't even tell me. I mean, what am I supposed to do, assume that the one person who ignores because they are in love actually means it that way. so not exactly me being broken up with, but just interesting.

[valerie]

I hear you totally Roman...I'm going through something like that as I write. The dude was crazy about me. He was constantly telling me how much I made him FEEL. Then we had a little conflict and he goes POOF! Deleted his profile from GC and has not contacted me since yesterday. OK I know that sounds silly...just one day apart and she's flipping out....but this is a guy who would stay up til all hours of the morning even though he had to work that day...just to talk to me. Our conversation flowed because we liked the same things and FELT things a lot alike as well. I wouldn't think he had left entirely if it weren't for the profile deletion. I thought he was just digesting whatever he needed, not packing his cyber suitcase! To me, that is the WORST kind of breakup...when they don't give you the closure you need and deserve, so you have to search for a way to find it yourself. And to think that he may have left because he was in love with me and couldn't see himself giving me the future together that I deserve....that's pretty sad.

By the way....I almost didn't comment here because I thought it was kind of a depressing thread, considering my current predicament, but maybe some people can give some suggestions on how to work this out in my head.

[lunamor]

Originally Posted by bigglesworth

you can't be in love when you have never met that person

Could be a good topic for discussion in a new thread, Bigglesworth.

[bayridgebabe]

Val, I know how you feel about wanting CLOSURE. I was seeing someone from this site 2 years ago and things were going pretty good for a while then POOF he disappeared. No reason @ that time why this happened. All I wanted was closure & didn't get it (not at that time). Last year he reappeared out of nowhere & I finally got my closure. I didn't like his answer, actually thought it was BS (he started to really have feelings for me) so he RAN AWAY!!!! Oh well, what can you do? I just picked myself up& dusted myself off & here I am ready to start all over again, heheheheh. Let's hope if there is another guy, it turns out better than my last GC romance.

[valerie]

CJ...he may have been telling the truth! Sad thing is...even Mr. NO-Commit can fall in love. But it's all how they handle it I guess. I've had TWO romances since April of this year and I'm getting a bit weary of trying to figure out these guys. From now on, I'm just gonna be ME, and if someone loves it, then I guess it's a match. CJ....you are so full of life...in fact you need the same T-shirt my dad has..."Bigger than life...better than perfect". If they can't keep up, that's THEIR problemo...not ours! hehe

[romandog]

This was not exactly how I meant this thread to go. I meant it more like Violet took it. I am sorry if I have caused something I didn't intend to.

[houstoncougar]

Put your big girl panties on ladies and no cat fighting allowed on roman's thread please!

[bigglesworth]

Believe me Houston I am done, I couldn't help myself when the door was opened, had to run through it, but I am satisfied now, just like a cat. Purrrrrr.......... And Roman I am sorry I kitty littered on your thread. Won't do it again.