Cougars - What attracts you to younger guys?

[zemenrai]

says it all in the title really

but I can;t say for definite what I like about older women, I guess they have a more 'natural' sex appeal as they are more comfortable with themselves etc, they also tend to be more adjusted, well balanced individuals which I guess comes from life experience

I could have chatted a alod of bull**** just then but oh well =P

[darkly1]

I don't think I am attracted to younger men per se, but it recently dawned on me that men my age do not come on to me. I don't think I'm the most beautiful thing in the world, but I am not entirely unattractive. The rare times that I have been approached has been by younger men. My ex husband even commented once that younger guys seem to like me. Anyway, I figure that as I get older the chances of someone my age being interested in me will slim down even more since most older men seem to like them young and fertile.

That being said I seem to attract mostly elderly men out of all age groups. They love the hell out of me. I think that has a lot to do with me being in home health care and they are who I am around most often.

[valerie]

Dating younger men always felt natural to me, and once again, I'll say that I've never dated or had a relationship with anyone my same age or older since I was in high school. The age gap began with an insignificant ONE year, and worked itself up to 30+ years. I enjoy the company of young men. I don't mean to say ALL young men are attractive to me....I'm rather discriminating about common interests, goals and of course...the compatibility of our pheromones. :-)~

I just love their fresh, unjaded attitude. Men my age are soooo set in their ways! Bottom line...I just don't wanna KISS the older guys...BLAH!!! If I had to rely on THAT, I think I'd run for the nearest....you know, those places where you become a nun? LOL

[westcougar]

For me, it's about their innocence, and their looks. As I'm not in this for a LTR, I'm mostly interested in what they look like, how the chemistry is and what they can do for me to enhance my overall satisfaction.

Sounds selfish? Men have been doing this for centuries; I'm just being honest about what I want.

[chilledice]

Originally Posted by westcougar

For me, it's about their innocence, and their looks. As I'm not in this for a LTR, I'm mostly interested in what they look like, how the chemistry is and what they can do for me to enhance my overall satisfaction.

Sounds selfish? Men have been doing this for centuries; I'm just being honest about what I want.

lol thats fair play

[westcougar]

No point in beating around the bush or playing coy. I'm 41 and I haven't got time on my side!

[chilledice]

I love that attitude! just blam going straight for what ya want, best of luck to ya

[violet]

Yay, a woman who "knows what she wants" !

(hehe, I'm just making a joke here, because so many times someone comes on here looking for a "cougar who knows what she wants". It sounds like a euphemism for sex of course, but when we call them on it they make all kinds of excuses that that's not what they meant!)

[westcougar]

Oh, dear. It makes me sound a bit of a slapper. I have loads of friends; I really don't need new 'friends' of the male persuasion.

Making friends with other like-minded females is an added benefit! Nice to know I'm not the only one perving the young lads in the supermarket!

[chilledice]

Originally Posted by westcougar

Oh, dear. It makes me sound a bit of a slapper. I have loads of friends; I really don't need new 'friends' of the male persuasion.

Making friends with other like-minded females is an added benefit! Nice to know I'm not the only one perving the young lads in the supermarket!

You can perv on me anytime ya want LOL hehehe