how shod I get into a relationship with a cougar

[dawson37]

Hi Valerie nice pic,think I will have to muster the courage to put a picture up.It's just if friends see I'm on here might get sum stick lol.Your picture is nice.Are you in love with someone over the pond I seem to remember reading lol?

[dougie1142]

Originally Posted by dawson37

Hi Valerie nice pic,think I will have to muster the courage to put a picture up.It's just if friends see I'm on here might get sum stick lol.Your picture is nice.Are you in love with someone over the pond I seem to remember reading lol?

Yes, fire a picture up! Once it's up you wont regret it

[dougie1142]

Originally Posted by arkanim

im thinking about getting into a relationship with a cougar but i dont know were to start can some one help

And in terms of help, show the lovely ladies who you are first, or if your planning to meet someone outside of the forum, you just have to muster up courage to talk to them where you would normally. Dont think that because it's a "cougar" you have to do anything too different. Apart from don't act like a little kid! Unless that woman likes that?

[dawson37]

Have you got more replies because you have put a picture up Doug

[dougie1142]

I've not met with anyone or anything like that, but you certainly get better "vibes" towards you if you have one up, and people seem to listen to you slighty more with it

[susanlb50]

yes, we like to see who we are chatting with...

[wetnwild]

Doug is absolutely right about the pic. And this....

Originally Posted by dawson37

It's just if friends see I'm on here might get sum stick lol.

is just a huge turn-off. As if you're embarrassed about the fact that you like older women. Have you ever considered the fact that if your "friends" see you on here, they might have the same interests as you? Why else would they be on here? {scratching head}

[violet]

I think it's sweet that you're looking for a relationship, arkanim. Sure, it's one step at a time, but I think it's nice that you are hoping to find something lasting as opposed to just a fling. Good luck! (and get your pic up, as the others suggested)

[violet]

Originally Posted by wetnwild

And this....

is just a huge turn-off. As if you're embarrassed about the fact that you like older women. Have you ever considered the fact that if your "friends" see you on here, they might have the same interests as you? Why else would they be on here? {scratching head}

Agree with all of that. What's to be embarrassed about?

[prefersmature]

You're aim might be to form a relationship but before that can happen you need to chat and get to know someone and allow them to get to know you. So just chill and chat to ladies and see what happens you might not get the relationship but you might get to talk to some great people.

Don't narrow your options.