Older Women/Younger Men

Originally Posted by italiana1

Doesn't mean that is all of that! Mixed with wit and vigor, companionship and less games. What games are you looking for? i AM HOT AND FULL OF LIFE AND EXPERIENCE. NOT GOOD ENOUGH?

TELL ME!

What's your profile here? I tried looking up your handle here, but it doesn't load a profile.

As for society... Society, until recently, has been run by men. So it's "cool" to have a young, hot wife/girlfriend, because the other guys are jealous/would do the same thing.

If anything, I think the older woman/younger man relationship is more honest! There is more sex because both are closer to their peaks. Whereas with an older guy/younger woman, they are further from their peaks and will never get any closer.

I would like to echo the person who said something like, "after dating older women, younger ones just start to get on my nerves." I totally agree. Older women are so much more fun!

[luvtruck]

I am a younger man who likes older women. My male friends don't understand it. They just see a woman who's body has seen better days. To them young is fresh, tight and firm and if the head games and strings get too much it's 'see ya later.' Older women are jsut as hot sexually, if not more, and there is no reason to bail because there just isn't any drama. Lay it out what you want from the get go and if you can work it then keep it going. Here's to you Mrs. Robinson !

[jeff180]

Originally Posted by luvtruck

I am a younger man who likes older women. My male friends don't understand it. They just see a woman who's body has seen better days. To them young is fresh, tight and firm and if the head games and strings get too much it's 'see ya later.' Older women are jsut as hot sexually, if not more, and there is no reason to bail because there just isn't any drama. Lay it out what you want from the get go and if you can work it then keep it going. Here's to you Mrs. Robinson !

Agreed!

Unfortunately, the younger guys I have dated are extrememly immature and play games. One of the guys remains "in the closet" about his passion for older women who are also on the chunky side, the other was the "I love you but I am not sure we should be together" type. I have read the posts of the guys on here and wish I lived where they do.

[hawaiian_delite]

I am not sure why it is exceptable for old man and girl child. I have always like younger men. I get turned off by an old man these days, due to the fact that there is all these drugs they can take to keep their sexual drive. I believe if a man need drugs to be sexual with me then he is not a man. I must say that we older women should be proud to say that we do turn on a younger man and there is a lot of young men the will chase a cougar.

[elbulk]

i love older women

For me it's about mindset. I don't care how old or young someone is as long as we click and there's interesting talk, fun, friendship, laughter and that lovely sensuous spark. Too many, old and young, men and women, seem to be dried up before their time, afraid to live. I actually think that's a lot of what this site is about - free thinkers, of all ages. If you're here for the vibe - it's already interesting to know you whoever you are - male, female, whatever age.

Wait a bit? Junior member? I ain't no junior member LOL I are a fully paid up purr-engined cougar .... rrrrrowwwwwrrrrrrrrr

I love you windsong! You are my sister! LOL

I know from experience that it can work. When I was 21 I dated a forty-one year old woman who I met through friends. We dated for about six months and during that time became very close. I was moving pretty soon and it is because of that we didn't get closer than we otherwise would, however I have no doubt had I stayed, we would have continued seeing each other and the relationship would have grown. People do look down on older women with younger men. My family didn't like it much, the men for the most part did (go figure) but the women in my family had major problems with it. For it to work I think both people have to be secure enough to know that most people in the beginning are going to have issues, but you have to remember, if you like the person, if you care for each other, it shouldn't matter what other people think. I've always enjoyed dating older women. For me it's easier, less drama, and I find myself noticing I have more in common with them. Age is just a number, and happiness is what matters, regardless of how old one or the other is. I firmly believe you can find love in relationships where age is a factor, you just have to be OK with the fact a lot of other people won't be.

[genevieve717]

Wow! Thanks to everyone who replied and shared their thoughts. I think it's important to have a realistic view of things and share our ideas on the subject. I appreciate all your comments.