Why most cougars want sex from a cub?

[armando476]

I have been looking for a serious relationship, but most of the cougars that I meet are just looking for sex. Why is this?

[lunamor]

Guess you're talking to the wrong ones, they don't represent everyone.

[lynda]

I agree Luna. Armando, there is a lot of ladies looking for a good relationship just takes time to find one and it is the same for us ladies most of the guys only want sex.

[vita]

I'm finding that hard to believe. Sorry.

If you want just sex and nothing more then, as a woman, you don't need to bother with sites like these. If you've got any sense, you'd just go to your local pub or wherever.

[lynda]

Vita, I mean that most of the guys us ladies talk to that is all they look for is sex and you are right if a woman wants sex then it is easy to find.

[seagreen]

Cougars want only sex? That sure has not been my experience on any of the cougar dating sites!

I am learning that I have to be very specific in my profiles about wanting only to date leading to relationship. I am not interested jumping into the sack with someone that I hardly know. That is apparently news to many young cubs. My updated profiles have helped to help slow down the cubs sending me pictures of body parts that I only want to see if we were intimate not casual...I am happy for them that they are so well endowed but it was way more info than I ever wanted to know about them...

[vita]

Originally Posted by lynda

Vita, I mean that most of the guys us ladies talk to that is all they look for is sex and you are right if a woman wants sex then it is easy to find.

Yes it wasn't you I was being doubtful of

[lynda]

hey vita thank goodness...lol

[gypsyred]

Armando, we've had this discussion before. I don't know who you are talking to, but its just not true that most cougars you talk to are looking for sex only. We've been speaking on and off for months, and I'm not after that. In fact, at times, I thought maybe you are! Maybe you just havent found that chemistry yet...and to do that, my friend, you are going to have to pull yourself away from that computer screen and go talk to some real live flesh and blood women. As you know, I'm presently in the UK. When you all, in America, should be asleep, you are online. You are going about it all wrong. You have to put yourself out there. You are cute enough with a nice bod...you'll do fine.

Chemistry and connection can only be achieved in person. The best you can do online is a friendship. Its too easy to strip or have a wank with someone online...might be why you only encounter that. So, get out there! Or, take the risk, and go meet someone who agrees to meet you, if you meet them online. Don't expect that they will come to you though. Be prepared to show a woman you are interested.

[dinno68]

So most cougars want sex only ! what is wrong with that !Give them the young meat they desire