need advice

[teamrealtree]

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[lynda]

In my humble opinion there is a couple of things against this....
1. she is MARRIED
2. work at the same place

The lady is married and in most circumstances this never works; someone is going to get hurt and more than likely it will be you.

Working in the same place is another no no. There is an old saying *You don't siht where you eat*; you get the drift. You have said you do not want this to get back to the wrong people. You know how things spread in a workplace and somebody will find out.

Keep your friendship and go about your job. If you like older women search for one single and that would enjoy your company. We do not hide all you have to do is find us.

[wetnwild]

WHY do people do this? Come on here seeking advice and then when they get it they go and delete their comment? I actually read it before he deleted it and I just don't understand. If you don't want to hear people's advice then why come on here seeking it? It's not like we know who you are or where you work or anything.

[ronnybaby]

so i imagine he wants to pursue a married woman he works with, who is older than him?

[lunamor]

WW, I hate that too (especially when I don't get to read it before it's been deleted)! BOOO HISSSSS!

[lynda]

I got a pm from him and he had said he took it down inwhich I agree that it should be left up if he wanted advice. He said the lady got injured and is not at work and doubts if she will be back. I think my answers scared him hahaha to understand what a problem it could be. He apparently does not have much experience with any kind of relationship. I stand with you guys that if you ask be able to step up and hear the responses.

[lunamor]

Thanks for the update, Lynda!

[wetnwild]

He pm'd me also Lynda. I guess he did get scared off and feels more comfortable discussing it in private. I really don't understand why, since like I told him, it's not like anyone knows who he is. He didn't have a pic or any info about himself. But I told him I agree with you. Stay away from the married ones, it will only cause problems and could lead to lots of heart-break on his end!