Why Do Guys Change After 6 Months Of Dating???

[cynders]

I have noticed that my relationship with my 23 yr old boyfriend has been slowly changing after just 6 months of dating. Everything up to the 6 month mark seemed to be going pretty good and then they all of sudden he start showing his true self. It's Like WHOA! What is with having all these hidden ANGER issues and boom one day he just explodes and then after that episode his true self came out and the anger really started to come out in full force. Our relationship is still fine and we see each other several times a week. Our sex is great and still calls me everyday and tells me everyday that he loves me/misses me without me having to say it first, but really what is up with all this anger and taking it out on ME??? I don't get it. I beginning to think its me and I'm doing something wrong.
What's going on here guys any opinions???

Don't worry yourself its not you. The guys your dating are just that young. AS such we are used to getting new and better things. So when he's been in relationship for 6 months he starts to get bored and restless. So in one way he doesn't want to hurt your feelings by calling it off, but on the other hand he wants out so he gets mad because he can't figure out what to do.

[seansc]

darkhelmet, do you even realize how big of an assumption that was? Not to mention possibly offensive. jeez dude.

and to cynders: there has to be something else going on in his life but i really dont know too much about the situation

[cynders]

Yes, he does have alot going on in his life right now, so thank you for your response. It put a glimmer of hope in my eyes. All of his friends and grandfather with whom he lives with, have turned their back on him for dating me cause i'm 19 yrs older and that I couldn't possibly want anything more than just sex with him.
(as that is what they have all said)
Anyways, I'm moving in 3 months about 2 hours away from where I live now and he actually asked me if he could move with me cause he is disgusted with how his friends are ignoring him at work and disrespecting me STILL, after 6 months of us being together! I guess having to deal with all that bull**** is probably wearing on him big time. I guess that is why he might have some anger going on inside. I feel so bad for him.

they get board and they want something new.

[cynders]

A GLIMMER OF HOPE ON THE HORIZON!

My boyfriend texted me last night to say that his "BEST FRIEND of 15 yrs" that has shunned him for the last 6 months for dating me called him up and apologized for all the bad things that he said about me. Wow! simply amazing. My boyfriend seemed to be so happy that his friend FINALLY said sorry for disrespecting him and me. He said that they were gonna hang out last night, he seemed so happy. So one friend, (his best friend) has come around and is starting to accept our relationship, so maybe his other friends will now follow suit and he'll go back to being his happy self again!

Every wants something change and new in his life. They just get board with the same thing.That's why...........................

[haberdasher]

Some people will disrespect a guy for dating a cougar b/c they wish THEY were dating a cougar.

[xoticbrandi]

Mostly, I believe it's because there isn't enough heart. The dedication they appeared to have initially was about the physical attraction and that was with "all" their heart. It was a challenge and a conquest...and a test to see if they could do it. Sort of Mount Everest! The flag and all that...you know what I mean. That never changed. It's a little like...well, the way they wanted to disperse the funds after the account was opened. That's what changed. It's a shame because the woman always has the same feelings, despite the dirty socks, bad breathe or funky tennis shoes. We don't see the bad things or we don't care, not sure (myself) which in that regard. But I truly believe the bottom line is when you see with your heart and not with your eyes, nothing else matters. We change too...only our change is for the better. Maybe this will make sense to someone and somehow help out. I think they just get used to us and think they don't have to do anything special anymore to keep us. Just wish I could find a decent guy who isn't out here playing with other people's feelings! That's what I wish would change with all my heart!!
Kiss, Kiss

Xoticbrandi

[icettube]

Tell your friend to keep his head up and damn those that seems to disrespect his opinions bout u.