proving sincerety

[ronnybaby]

Sometimes a girl thinks a guy only wants her for sex, and i want to tell her, "i would be willing to date you for 6 months with no sex to prove that i want a relationship"... but ive never said that because i dont know how it would go over, like maybe she would think i wasnt sexual enough

[lunamor]

If it were me, I'd be really charmed!
If I liked you I wouldn't wait 6 months, but I'd surely enjoy putting you to the test for a while...I just love teasing Then I'd also know if you were, in fact, sexual or not.

[laine175]

I agree it's a sweet thought...but it's not about proving you want a relationship...it's about showing you want a relationship....If I liked you... six months would be a waste lol I'd have to try you out because sex is an important part of the relationship!!!

[lynda]

Ronny, it would make me feel like it was worth the wait and you had a lot of respect for me but I agree with the ladies I would not want to wait that long. It does turn me off in the beginning if that is all the guy can talk about is sex and my body. There is way more to me than that and you too. Just be your sweet self and it will work....

[ronnybaby]

so, laine and lynda... what do you think i should do if a girl is questioning my sincerety?

[4020]

Actions speak louder than words. Look a person in the eye. Let your yes be yes and your no be no.

[lynda]

Ronny, be yourself and always make that lady feel special. Most of us ladies know when you are sincere this is not our first rodeo. 4020 makes a good point actions do speck louder than words and never be dishonest because if we find out then you are done.....

[ronnybaby]

i think cougars always will uncover a liar... and i find that to be strangely attractive

[4020]

Cougar or not it is easy to spot a phony and a liar. It comes with practice and experience.

[susanlb50]

so true 4020...and Ronny don't worry about that, your a great guy and a good catch, the right women will know that pretty fast...