Books on Age Gap Dating

[lonely562]

Is anyone aware of good books on age-gap dating from the man's perspective?

I have found a couple on the subject, but they are all written by women for women. I just finished Older Women Younger Men by Brings and Winter, for example. It was very edifying but focused entirely on the female half.

Of course, maybe everyone just assumes that young men don't read so there's no point in writing for them. There's a bleak thought.

[1010]

Well, I'm a man who reads. (yay me)

Actually, I think the reason the books mainly focus on the female half, is because since the woman is older, she's more fitted for reflection and analyzation. Also, the woman being older would mean she's more likely to read about it, while the younger man is more likely to consider it in solitude. Or in my case, pursue his desires and experience it first hand.

You would also think that the woman would be more insecure and nurvous about it. She could have these desires and emotions and would prefer she see another woman's perspective on it, to validate, or at least secure her decision to date younger men.

Are you saying men dont have that deep thoughts and perspective? That men tends to be focused on sex and therefore not much to write about? :-)) rofl

There are some men who have a philosophical tendency. For the most part, it's been my experience, you youngbloods tend to focus on the shallow, instant gratification aspect of this whole scenario. You guys who want it all NOW, take some time to cultivate a garden. THAT'S the kind of patience and care a "good" relationship takes. From what I can tell, most of the great women who are here want that kind of cultivating and we certainly deserve it.
Love & Peace,
Dreamer