04-03-2010, 03:13 PM
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Originally Posted by lioninthecity  This forum is amusing. Many of the cruising cougars seem no different than the adolescent males that I know all too well. At least 10 years older than the age they visualize themselves at and believe that they are really young people in an older person's body, age is just a number, etc. etc. etc.
Many women I know are disgusted by the 50 something guy trying to pick up the girl in her late thirties or the forty-something looking for a girl who is just a few years out of college... and hearing the word "relationship" makes me giggle. It's the same exploitation of the young for the same purpose and not really about relationships most of the time. Don't we all like to have a PYT? And with the young women, it's about the attraction of the money, success, world knowledge etc. Those who don't have the bonus to put out must make it worthwhile to keep that person with youth as an asset interested and compelled...
So the bottom line is, my boy, if you really want a relationship that lasts and not a "period of fun" then you have to figure out what it is you really want. If you just want some rolls in the hay, that's fine too which is what a lot of young men here want and they can't stop talking that way. All this talk about "role playing" I'm reading too... nobody can just be themselves, right? So my advice is to listen to the women and figure out what "role" it is that turns them on. Good boy to teach, bad boy that needs punishing, whatever, and take the "relationship" for what it is. Have fun storming the castle... | Point well taken, why is playing a role so important?
most of these woman wants one thing and is to love and be loved in return and well, to make love.. 
Dating is a serious business, it can be constricting if you're playing a role that will last only for a night. I don't know about any of you, I wouldn't want to develop a split personality.
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