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crimsonak · #11 (**permalink**) 02-14-2010, 12:39 AM

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Originally Posted by wetnwild

Very well said crimson! And actually it was a pretty good first post!

Now how about turning that pic rightside up so I don't have to crank my neck around? NOW, snap to it!!! haha, just kidding (trying to play the dom one here, don't think it's working though)

I was in the middle of experimenting with a bunch of different pictures. I trust the one I eventually chose is suitable though. Just a shame it's so small as it hides the detail of the picture! I suppose if anyone wanted to see proper they could always PM me though.

Thank you very much on a side note though for saying it was a good first post, frankly I thought it was quite.. rude for lack of a better word cos it was basically going against what the original poster said outright XD

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Originally Posted by lunamor

Well, there you have it: one guy who says he's not very dominant and one who says he's slightly dominant - and they both (presumably?) like older women.

I should really explain by "not very" what I mean is, while I am dominant as a personality it doesnt mean like.. I don't know "no means no" It means im persuasive and argumentative to a degree, but im not absolute. I submit to logic. Put it that way XD
For example I would never be angry at someone for something that was out of their control or knowledge and I would never be impatient with someone who was trying their best or at the limits of their own personality. Unlike alot of people who forfill the same "role" as me. Although I don't really like using the word role as I feel it stereotypes me into a sect rather than classifies me as a person.

Edit - Continuing what you said though. Basically yes. I mean just as different as me and the original poster are is exactly the difference you will experience between any older woman to that of another older woman. Your age ultimatly does not define who you are. You define who you are.

jcking88 · #12 (**permalink**) 02-14-2010, 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by crimsonak

I was in the middle of experimenting with a bunch of different pictures. I trust the one I eventually chose is suitable though. Just a shame it's so small as it hides the detail of the picture! I suppose if anyone wanted to see proper they could always PM me though.

My suggestion if you care for one is to crop a little on the top of the image, and a bit more on the bottom of the image; the system will then zoom it in naturally to fit the maximum width/height requirements.

I am also a little submissive, but I've never seen what the problem would be with dating another submissive if our personalities matched. It's just not something I see myself caring enough about to ask a woman I'm dating or considering dating.

lynda · #13 (**permalink**) 02-15-2010, 03:18 AM

giggle giggle giggle now that I have that out from reading ww and houston's posts...

Guys, why in the world do you think an older woman would be anything
other than herself in any kind of relationship? Now if you are role
playing she might want to spank your cub bum and I think some of you
probably need it.

aciles1907 · #14 (**permalink**) 02-20-2010, 12:12 AM

searcing sexy cougar

sharps · #15 (**permalink**) 03-02-2010, 04:32 PM

Lynda, i'm not sure that they assumed an older woman would take any particular kind of role in a relationship. I think it was more that one might assume certain behaviours and traits about an older woman built and created through life experience and forming her attitude within the relationship. Perhaps choosing "her role" would be for lack of a better way to put it.

eve_libertine · #16 (**permalink**) 03-06-2010, 06:32 AM

Well, let's just put it this way, shall we? Despite my age, I am really just like the teenager I was 30 years ago. I love flirting, having a guy say sweet things to me, and generally making me feel wanted, desirable, loved, and yeah, lets face it, young again.
So no to stereotypes. The difference any older woman will generally have is a lot more knowledge and the lack of inhibition of her own younger self.
I hope that defines what I want to say. any questions, just ask me here.

gypsyred · #17 (**permalink**) 03-10-2010, 06:15 PM

What ever happened to the concept of partnership in older woman/younger guy relationships?

eleiz11 · #18 (**permalink**) 03-10-2010, 10:50 PM

I would have to agree it's the confidence and swagger that attracts me. What could be better then two people knowing what they want, and how they are going to get it.