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[gypsyred]

I'm being ignored right now...it doesn't feel very good...but wcdan is right...you don't know what is going on with him... So, let go of it and move on and if he comes back, great, and if he doesn't...well at least you didn't put a lot more energy into it. If it helps, and you're ****ed off about it...go outside and yell at the top of your lungs or call a sympathetic friend and say all the things about him, insult him, what you'd do to him, how you'd fix him, etc, etc, etc...and just let it out....then sit back, have a glass of wine, take a bath and wash your hair and get up the next morning, and make yourself extra beautiful, and tell yourself, he can go screw himself. And if he eventually calls, you will be in the right frame of mind...."Oh, I didn't even notice..." because, you didn't. Maybe you'll even meet a great guy that you wouldn't have met if you were dilly dallying around with this guy.

[jasonm519]

Most guys(and even girls sometimes) "come on strong" with multiple people till they get a bite. At that point either they level with you and tell you they're seeing/interested in someone else, play you and don't tell you anything, or they just focus all their efforts into their most recent play thing.

Chances are the guy is just an asshole, but it never hurts to send him a message just asking him how he's doing or inquire about the date/meeting/etc.


38 hours without sleep and counting, go!

[wetnwild]

Originally Posted by jasonm519

Most guys(and even girls sometimes) "come on strong" with multiple people till they get a bite. At that point either they level with you and tell you they're seeing/interested in someone else, play you and don't tell you anything, or they just focus all their efforts into their most recent play thing.

Hmmm, that is very interesting Jason. Not being the type of person that does that, that is good information to know. And it really explains something that I just recently went through. Man, you're full of good info when you are sleep-deprived!

[jasonm519]

I've just seen alot of stuff. Though, when I have been up for a long period I get what I can only relate to a runners high. Everything is so clear and new. It's pretty awesome.

[johnexx1]

From a man's point of view, you need to take the blinders off. If I tentatively set a date to meet a woman on a certain day, I will contact you if i cannot make it. There would be communication. This is not 1810, it's 2010.

I would not worry about him and I would not pursue him. If he comes back to you with a good explanation, then you should do what you feel with this guy. If not, he is not the last guy on earth...there will be more.

[sharps]

Sack him off. I'm on the same wavelength as Jason here.