Do cougars still like young rocker/metal guys??

[austin_rocker87]

It seems I've only dated about 2 older women who seemed to be into the Rocker life style. I'm not sure if they could even be considered cougars at 27 and 32. However one of them was still married and I didn't find out til later and the other never bothered to tell me her life long dream of being a lesbian drag king, haha, some luck I have.

But it seems lately the only females who want a deep relationship with me are TEENS, which I just don't find attractive. Guess I've always just been interested in a WOMAN, not a little girl.

So really, are there any Cougars into the 'clean cut' rocker/metal guys? (meaning I dont have a Zack Wylde beard going on haha). And if not, what turns you off about that kind of guy?

[genevieve717]

I'm not sure what you mean about "rocker lifestyle". Perhaps you could clarify that. I've always been attracted to the long-haired rocker look, but not necessarily the rocker lifestyle (my definition of it). Having been married to a musician I can say that I didn't appreciate the drugs, booze, and groupies/babes aspects of it. He'd be out partying/screwing/whathaveyou during and after a gig, whilst I was home taking care our children by myself. Sooo.. yeah, I'd say no thanks to that again. Being married to a man who still thinks he's single with no responsiblities sucks to say the least.

So, basically, yes, I'm attracted to the bad boy rocker look, without the bad boy. It depends on his maturity and sense of integrity. Looks mean nothing if a person is an @ss.

[austin_rocker87]

haha yeah I guess when I say lifestyle i'm thinkin like I wake up in the morning to AC/DC as my alarm song, I log onto the computer and check my MySpace Music solo page to see how my plays are doing and if I have any new fans, I go to work and practice vocals or mess with songs in my head, I come home and to relax play Guitar Hero, or play my real guitar, lol, and for a 'night out' I like to go to local band shows and show my support.

No, I'm not a druggie, I don't drink beyond a buzz, and I dont try to sleep with as many women as possible in one night.

So yeah sorry for the way I worded it, but I did mean a little bit beyond looks. Frankly, I have no idea why my dress style would be considered...i'm like average, skater, rocker, metal, and 'scene' all in one I suppose lol.

[genevieve717]

Ah, ok.. thanks for explaining. I suppose I was thinking of the extreme "rocker lifestyle" (btw one of my favorite bands, Extreme). The only thing that would turn me off to it would be someone who was indeed a druggie, etc. Sooo.. Then to answer your original question.. yes, there are still older women out there who are into metal/rocker guys. I guess it's just a matter of finding one in your area?

[vegasgal999]

Rockers--yeaahhhh!!!

PS: Black Label Society--yeaahhhh!!!

My taste in men is extremely narrow. Apart from liking guys under 23, I personally like the skater boys. I prefer guys with very short hair, and I never date guys with facial hair. I don't find musicians appealing at all, but I've seen other older women with the rocker type guys.

[firefly3x]

As for me, i prefer the cute still-in-school looking guys though. But i'd take any guys, even those hard metal rock kind of attitude. I am not that choosy in finding younger guys, but i still got my own preferences.

dude i'm having the same problem. people keep saying that because i'm 18 and a "metal head" that i couldn't possibly be mature.

[firefly3x]

Lol...i am ok with immature guys can always teach them a lesson.

lol thanks firefly. btw have you ever seen the show firefly.