Explicit Survey Question!

[mizbehavin]

Tell me honestly what you think

If a married woman accepts a vibrator from a guy who is not her husband, is she cheating?

[andy1338]

I would say so but it depends if its a joke or not to be honest.

[lunamor]

Hmm do you consider sex with a vibrator an extramarital relationship?

[houstoncougar]

is using a vibrator if you're married cheating on your husband? If you're asking if taking a gift from a man who is not your husband is cheating I'd say no not unless you're emotionally attached to the gift giver then yes it would be cheating since I consider emotional attachment to someone else other than your spouse a form of cheating. I thought you were in the process of a divorce though mz?

[wildblue]

Originally Posted by houstoncougar

is using a vibrator if you're married cheating on your husband? ?

Not if you let your husband play with you AND the vibrator.

I can't imagine any dude would be OK with another man giving his wife a vibrator. Joke or not -

[mizbehavin]

I Am at the very beginnings of my divorce and my husband and I have been separated for over 8 months. Apparently he sees a Battery Operated Friend as cheating, and I don't. I actually think it's just an excuse to justify his renewed experience in dating. And is it still true that if you adamantly accuse someone of something, especially cheating, that chances are it's on your mind? Just wondering.

And no, I do not consider it an extramarital relationship. At least my BOF doesn't have to take a little blue pill and wait an hour before it's useful

The guy who sent it to me lives over 500 miles from me and was just a friend.

[wildblue]

Originally Posted by mizbehavin

I Am at the very beginnings of my divorce and my husband and I have been separated for over 8 months. Apparently he sees a Battery Operated Friend as cheating, and I don't. I actually think it's just an excuse to justify his renewed experience in dating. And is it still true that if you adamantly accuse someone of something, especially cheating, that chances are it's on your mind? Just wondering.

And no, I do not consider it an extramarital relationship. At least my BOF doesn't have to take a little blue pill and wait an hour before it's useful

The guy who sent it to me lives over 500 miles from me and was just a friend.

well if you're getting a divorce (and I assume have seperate residences) why is at any of his business what you do? Tell him to F off.

[wetnwild]

I agree with wildblue (hey wildblue we actually agree on something! )

It is NONE of his biz, he doesn't need to know what you do anymore and if he wants to consider that "cheating" he has much bigger issues anyway. But maybe you should consider getting HIM a blow-up doll to make him feel better!

And miz, I LOVE this:

Originally Posted by mizbehavin

At least my BOF doesn't have to take a little blue pill and wait an hour before it's useful

HAHAHAHA!!!! You also don't have to worry about "it" getting its pleasure first and then rolling over and going to sleep LOL! Enjoy your new "friend" !

HUGS!! Divorce is never easy.

[mizbehavin]

Originally Posted by wetnwild

HAHAHAHA!!!! You also don't have to worry about "it" getting its pleasure first and then rolling over and going to sleep LOL! Enjoy your new "friend" !

HUGS!! Divorce is never easy.

Happy you liked that Maybe that's why I'm a cougar? There's definitely something to be said about spontaneous YOU! HERE, NOW sex

Any man who tried to roll over and go to sleep if I needed to be satisfied would have a very rude awakening or better pay me back 3 fold later!

[wildblue]

Originally Posted by mizbehavin

Happy you liked that
Any man who tried to roll over and go to sleep if I needed to be satisfied would have a very rude awakening or better pay me back 3 fold later!

I think that's called the 68 position - he owes you one later.