Explicit Survey Question!

[mizbehavin]

I guess garbage is in the eye of the beholder. I trust the opinions of every person that I am familiar with in these forums, and this was a serious question that I needed an answer to. Thanks for the support Gail Some people are just so self-involved!

And as for my BOF seeing another woman? Ewww! I don't swing that way!

[andy1338]

Originally Posted by harryg

How would you feel if the vibrator was seeing another woman?

Well there is a recession on.

[armando476]

Originally Posted by mizbehavin

Tell me honestly what you think

If a married woman accepts a vibrator from a guy who is not her husband, is she cheating?

Interesting question. No is not consider cheating because you are not having sex with him. He only gave you an object lol.

[tacittales]

Here's the deal:

If you use it, it's only cheating if he's still holding onto it.

[anirobbie]

Honestly I think It's perfectly fine if a married woman accepts a vibrator from a man that's not her husband.Because of the fact that your with a vibrator and not another human being doesn't make it cheating. There are probably alot of people in relationships who have toys that they use to help satisfy themselves anyway.So if she likes it I would just say go for it!

[andy1338]

I would say it is probably cheating. I don't know why I feel that way but I do

[danhug]

You dnt hav to say All guys at one point play with thier body. Am an exception .

Originally Posted by wetnwild

She already stated that she is getting divorced, so OBVIOUSLY "something isn't right". And since she IS getting divorced, why does it matter what kind of gift she accepts from another man?

Even if she WEREN'T getting divorced I don't know how one can consider a sex toy "cheating". It's a toy, a thing, not a living, breathing human being. I'm not saying it would be RIGHT to accept the gift (IF she were still in the marriage, that is). But how is it any different than HIM pleasuring himself with his own hand? All guys do that at some time. Does that mean every time a guy pleasures himself that he is cheating on his woman because he might be thinking of someone else and not his wife or girlfriend? Heck, I would MUCH rather my guy cheat on me with his own hand than another woman any day!

AND, just because the guy gave her the gift does not mean that she would be "thinking of him" when she uses it. She just might be thinking about whoever it is that turns her on!

[mizbehavin]

Not ever dan, not even as a teenager?

[danhug]

Never tried it . Had too many girls arnd me growing up. U get my drift.

[danhug]

There is a diff. Btw a Divorced n Married Woman. Its ok for a Divorcee receivin gifts such as a vibrator from a male friend. While a married woman cld tell is husband to get him one and nt is male friend sending her 1 has a gift.