being used?

[andy1338]

I dont know if its beacuse im alittle drunk but that seemed very profound to me.

[itsmytime2]

a little drunk? LOL - Yes, I am always much more profound to those who are impaired! Points for only one keyboarding error while 'a little drunk' -

[andy1338]

Yea I thought I done rather well. The problem is I don't have any silver cylenders so I used too much

[aceflip]

Originally Posted by andy1338

I know this will sound a bit odd but I am worried that if i do go out with an older women even though they are smart, sophisticated and beautiful that she might just use me then throw me away. I know its not really a typical concern but I don't know does anyone else experienced this fear?

What makes me cope with it...

I'd like to think that dealing with older, established woman is less of a game. If it happens at least it will be abrupt, concise and to the point. I feel like the younger crowd likes to string you along for extra time and slowly bring you to this point, which in my opinion is worse. This is just my opinion.

[abergirl]

I can't count the number of times I've begun to trust someone and been let down, but you can't let it colour your life or how you react to others. I'm always completely open and honest about what I'm looking for, so there can be no misunderstanding, if others aren't, not much you can do. You just have to reach out sometimes...

[aceflip]

Originally Posted by abergirl

I can't count the number of times I've begun to trust someone and been let down, but you can't let it colour your life or how you react to others. I'm always completely open and honest about what I'm looking for, so there can be no misunderstanding, if others aren't, not much you can do. You just have to reach out sometimes...

yea you're right. Sometimes I get scared to make the leap but I need to just do it sometimes

[greeneyesdontlie]

I'm going to be totally frank:

If you get used, so what?

I mean, an emotional connection is nice...but let's be completely honest here...

Cougars blow young women out of the water when it comes to bedroom activities.

So, if you do get used, take a half glass full approach!

Just put yourself out there. See what happens! If you find emotional fulfillment, awesome. If you learn things, awesome. But if you get used, but got some rather gnarly "fun," then whatever! Roll with the punches! Adapt

[wildblue]

Originally Posted by greeneyesdontlie

I'm going to be totally frank:

If you get used, so what?

I mean, an emotional connection is nice...but let's be completely honest here...

Cougars blow young women out of the water when it comes to bedroom activities.

So, if you do get used, take a half glass full approach!

Just put yourself out there. See what happens! If you find emotional fulfillment, awesome. If you learn things, awesome. But if you get used, but got some rather gnarly "fun," then whatever! Roll with the punches! Adapt

sounds like a good philosophy to me.

[lunamor]

Using them isn't the reason why guys want us to know them?

On my planet it's like that