I am such a dumbass !

[phanteon]

Hi all

Let me share another experience of me.
I have a good friend of my who is about 24 years older than me and I started to develop romantic feelings for her. This weekend her children were out to some rock festival. So this was the perfect opportunity to spent some time with her alone. I asked her out to dinner but she doesn't like to go out to dinner when she is working the next day. Then I came up with the idea " if she doesn't like to go out to dinner why not bring dinner to her !?" So I did ! I ordered some take away chinese with some champagne and white whine to go with it. Anyway I came at her door and we sat down and ate dinner just the two of us .

We talked a bit and she said she had bought something new but that I have to wait and that I can't be curious. I said " Ok I will wait" After we finished dinner. She went upstairs and put on a new dress and wanted to know what I thought of it.My first reaction was "rrrrrr" it was a dress with open chest really nice and just wow ! Anyway she didn't like her bra there and she took it off. I said while you're at it why don't take it all off lol. she said "Yea sure with a little shy grin" Anyway as the evening progressed we started flirting more and more but it stayed at flirting. I realised this morning I had let down a perfect opportunity to express my feelings towards her without her kids interfering or anything.

I feel such a dumbass that I didn't take the chance to express my feelings or take actions when I had the oportunity...

I am afraid that our relationship will remain frienship based due her children medeling to much. But then again I can't help noticing that there are some tentions between us. It's like a game "attracting and ignoring"
When I take a few steps she takes a few back , when she takes a few I take a few back. Common we are full grown adults. Maybe we just have been friends for to long to start getting romanticly involved !?

What are your thoughts ?

[beaw]

I am such a dumbass!

Touche! (Just kidding)

When I take a few steps she takes a few back , when she takes a few I take a few back.

C'mon man! She took ALL the steps on that fateful dinner day and you were just pussyfooting!

What runs in your veins Bro? Whatever it is, I doubt if its blood!

What exactly do you want from her? It's clear to me that she wants you! Make up your mind, talk to her and go for it!

Good luck!

[ares9]

Take my advice don't tell her your feelings, you were given the green light and you let it change, there are all kind of hints she was dropping for you it sounds like. You just need to run with and not try to complicate things with all kinds of sincerity because just listening to what you described I'd be willing to bet as soon as you open up she's gone. But unless you know this girl pretty well she may already be gone... moral of the story don't pass up opportunity, remember it's the females who choose us? (at least the pretty ones lol...)

[houstoncougar]

Yep it's opportunity knocking and when it does you're supposed to throw open the door and greet it with a big ass grin while screaming hello!!! Or, sad to say the wind will slam it shut for you since she probably figures oh well, I guess he doesn't want to take the opportunity to have this experience.

[lunamor]

Gosh, you did such a great thing with the take-dinner-to-her-place, so I guess you're only HALF a dumbass Sure sounds like she was trying to see if you're interested in her only as a friend, or possibly more - she left you an opening a mile wide!

[beaw]

Hey Lunamour,

Your new photo is breathtakingly ... wow! I've not been around for a while so I guess you must have received lots of comments on it, but I just can't let mine pass.

I'd bet my bottom dollar if Phanteon's lady looked just a teeny winny bit as sexy as you look in that pose, his response would have been reflex action and the rest would have been history!! .

I just can't be tired of saying it. You look smashing, gal!

A - B - S - O - L - U -T - E - L - Y Smashing!

[lunamor]

Oh, you're very kind, thank you