loving a distant relative

[startpoint]

Ok, this is going to be a difficult one to explain. what do you do should you fall in love with a very distant relative who is already in a relationship but is going throught a bad patch at presnt? It is hard to sit back and see her suffer when all I want is to hold her and care for her. Is this so wrong?

[twigs1984]

Originally Posted by startpoint

Ok, this is going to be a difficult one to explain. what do you do should you fall in love with a very distant relative who is already in a relationship but is going throught a bad patch at presnt? It is hard to sit back and see her suffer when all I want is to hold her and care for her. Is this so wrong?

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you mean realative as in another person in your family?

[startpoint]

Yes I do mean another member of my family. But we are fith cousins. Moving to Utah sounds good but staffordshire has a lot to offer. Why does love have to be so complicated? I truly do love and want to care for her but know it may never happen but I can dream.

[escudero95]

The closer you are related to someone, the more likely there will be birth complications and/or defects if you were to breed. That's the only extra thing to consider.

[robynneazura]

A good love story of long distance...LEgends of the Fall by Jim Harrison. Also a good movie, but the novella is very intense as a love story not just between lovers, but also family love, companion love, and even some love triangle kind of stuff.Jim H also wrote a good one called "Revenge" based on a secret affair and the protagonist must track down his "Stolen" love from the man who was originally married to the woman of interest.
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[startpoint]

Thank you Tarni,
Your advice means a lot to me but as I mentioned She is in a relationship at present and has been for seven years but I think she may be fed up with him so who knows? Thanks again, startpoint Before I forget, we both do not children so there would be no chance of any birth defects!

[houstoncougar]

you have got to be kidding I don't even know who my 5th cousins are... well wait they probably live somewhere in Ireland, France or Poland. Go for it and quit worrying about other people.

[wiloy2k2]

hey brother .. go for it ....if you really do like her ...and you in love with her ,,,

sometimes you don't just think of what every other person would say cos .. they have their love of their lives .. why cant you have yours if you really know it would work ,,,,

i believe its gonna work if you go for it and be really honest ..

gracias ..

[wiloy2k2]

hey brother .. go for it ....if you really do like her ...and you in love with her ,,,

sometimes you don't just think of what every other person would say cos .. they have their love of their lives .. why cant you have yours if you really know it would work ,,,,

i believe its gonna work if you go for it and be really honest ..

gracias ..

[startpoint]

Hey brother,
I apreciate your advice. but she is in a relationship and has been for some years now but I think she may be at her limits of patience with this guy. I hope that one day I may have my chance of finding true love with her.