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06-06-2009, 07:24 PM
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 Hi, New Member Here.. HELP! I work in the Restaurant business and have recently become attracted to one of the younger men I work with (almost 15 years my junior) We have some things in common. Sometimes I feel that he is attracted to me: ie. he will mention how a lot of girls call him, and how a lot of the women he has dated in the past are a lot older than he is. I catch him staring at me when I;m not looking and sometimes he will actually look right into my eyes. He has not made a move however I get crazy when we work together because I can almost feel his attraction. I want to ask him out, but we work together .....etc./..and I don't want to look like a fool Thanks Lori  |
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06-06-2009, 08:06 PM
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Are you his boss? Or are both of you just colleges? If you’re his boss, I’d say you’re skating on thin Ice if you make a move. If you’re both colleges however, I would go for it and ask him out on a date (as it seems he’s not making the first move). I stick to my guns on this one: if the whole situation turns out to be a huge misunderstanding, it might get a bit awkward between the two of you for a little while. But if you’re good friends you’ll eventually over come that awkward feeling and carry on as friends. |
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06-07-2009, 02:37 AM
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Thank you for the response.No I am not his boss, we work as colleagues. I will take your advice and ask him out... Thanks |
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06-07-2009, 09:21 PM
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i believe you should take the plunge as well, because you never know where love(hopefully) will take you 
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06-08-2009, 02:55 AM
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take the plunge. dont let it interfere with either of your jobs. be more confident thats usually what younger guys like in older women...
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06-09-2009, 12:21 AM
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say go for it if hes not your boss then you really have nothing to loose. If it's a big misunderstanding so what haven't you ever laughed at yourself? I crack myself up everyday with my sparkle ling personality and wit. rofl No really though just go for it you will never know if you don't at least try.  |
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06-09-2009, 12:45 PM
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| What do I do now?
Thank you everyone!!! |
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