Dominant or Submissive?

[dolph]

Ive dated Cougars before,and alot have that,,Im older so Im in charge Im the teacher thing going on..It usually ruins it for me,,because its not in my nature to be dominated by a woman in the bedroom..Turns me right off..I prefer the
more traditional male /female roles

I dont want or need a teacher..

So, im wondering,how many of you are submissive and how many of you dominant ?

[blueize]

I have a very assertive personality, and I'm not shy in the bedroom. I'm playful, but I have a submissive streak. I think "cougars" who are portraying that media persona probably see themselves as being dominant. That whole thing is kind of passe. I bet most women who date younger men are like most women who date anyone, but I'm curious about the answer.

I don't think most younger guys who date us are submissive even though older women appeal to that demographic. How many "cubs" out there are submissive?

[totage]

I like a dominant woman.

[houstoncougar]

do you even need to ask me that question? I would think just reading anything I have written would give the answer very clearly but, just in case someone doesn't want to go back and read I am very much a dominant. Although as in all things, it depends on the relationship and what kind of mood I am in...

[haberdasher]

why pick one or the other when you can have, as miley would say, 'the best of both worlds.'

[dolph]

Thanx all for your responses Seems to be kind of split down the middle..

Thanx
Tarni,Habadasher,Houston Cougar,Totage,Blueize.. anyone I missed

[valerie]

My personal take is that a man who is completely submissive isn't willing to participate! EEEWWW!!! How would YOU like it if a woman just laid there like a wet lumpy dishrag and let herself be "done"? And that question is obviously not addressed to YOU, Dolph, since you are on the opposite end of the spectrum! LOL

My preference is somewhere in between the two, I suppose. And a little role-playing is fun sometimes, even if it's not typical of ones usual bedroom behavior! Variety is a good thing, oui? ;-)~

[dolph]

Well I do like a woman to be into it and submissive women like the dynamic,,so they get into it and participate,,if a woman layed like a lump,, id lose interest..To me its all about the dance..I mean lets be real, women give in ONLY where they want to give in,,and thats part of the fun of trying to push the limits..

[houstoncougar]

I don't get that statement at all...

[blueize]

There's this cute little spanking emoticon. I tried to upload it here, but couldn't get it to copy and paste. It googles-up under "spanking smileys" for anyone who wants to see it.

I couldn't find a hair pulling smiley. Oh well...