Cougars with biological clock issues

[lunamor]

If you're both on different continents and aren't yet dating, have you even MET yet?

[barbcast]

Actually I recently read an article in the NY Daily News that said by 2015, Baby Making for ANY woman over 30 will be more likely to happen thru Invitro, that it's just a seriously more viable option than the "natural" way these days. Gotta find that and put it up.

The one I deal with has said if it happened, he would be ok with it, especially since it would improve my health, (I have a condition which improves with an increase in Progesterone levels) but he would actually love to ADOPT children one day from his native country where there are many many orphans, no matter if he were with a young or older lover. He's from Armenia, and was brought here at age 2 during the Turkish Genocide 20 years ago. He lost most of his family, and had cousins left behind after their parents died. SO, his bottom line is, if he's meant to be a father naturally, that's great, but it's the LOVE between 2 people that makes a FAMILY, not biology, so loving his partner is the most important thing, where the child comes from is not as important. See why I'm not quite ready to let this one go? He may be a kid at heart, but there's a depth there that is worth waiting out...

I'm a strong woman, and even if this YM wasn't interested in raising a child we created, I would still do so myself. I'm financially secure, stable and happy.

[bayridgebabe]

Sorry I can't help you out as my biological stopped ticking a long long time ago. First & foremost you have to be totally honest with this young man & so far you haven't been, what kind of relationship is that? What do you mean you will tell him your age when he asks? How come he doesn't know it already?

And whatiif iwaswhite, go to he double hockey sticks, leave us alone, you sound like a moron to me.

Dinno69 as for you well you & whatifiwaswhite can also go "F" yourselves and do this !@##$&&*$$!^&@#%$ while you 2 are @ it do it to yourselves & STOP wasting valuable forum space.

I really don't think thew ladies on here care about anything you 2 have 2 say except to say "F" off (IMHO)

[houstoncougar]

be missing something cuz idk what luna and barbcast are talking about but as far as dinno is concerned I recently heard that it is the man's sperm that causes many of the birth defects in babies and that as early as 30 the quality of their sperm is greatly deteriorated. I had my one and only child at 31 my sister had her last one at 45 both perfectly healthy children so idk what he's talking since he has apparently not done his research.

[wetnwild]

Everyone calm down. First of all, did ANYONE look at the date of this thread by the OP? This thread is OVER a year old!! The only reason it got brought back up is because dinno likes to come on here and revive old threads for no apparent reason. So bayridge, the people you are yelling at are most likely no longer on here. And PLEASE calm down. Seriously. You are getting REALLY angry on all of your posts lately. You need that party, girl!

Closing this thread now so NO MORE POSTS.