Successful hunt

[energeticmale]

Originally Posted by alecto

Met him, his physique in no way indicates he was ever in the military. On the "not in shape" side of athletic. Okay, that was something I could over look cuz I could get him in shape fast with all the work the farm needs but he is a total slob! At 37 years old, this guy lives with 3 other guys and sleeps in the living room on a filthy couch. He knew I was coming to help him out to take him home for over a week now and yet his "spit" cup for sun flower seed hulls and canned spray cheese was still by his couch. Ugggh, he wanted to cuddle on THAT couch and all I could handle was 15 mins and I left with him wondering why I couldnt relax. The toilet was a typical male john with pp drops all over it and the kitchen had dirty dishes all over the place. Here I travelled a 4 hour rt trip and no offer to pay for part of the gas. I even went shopping for him since he was on pain meds and couldnt get post-op foods. Oh, he let me keep the $1.80 in change!

Guys, please dont tell me this is typical of single men. Oh please, I might as well shoot myself now!

That's disgusting, but sadly it is how a lot of guys are. If a man hasn't found a place of his own or isn't renting a house with just one other person then it's probably not a good idea to date him. I know this sounds judgmental, but usually tells you he's only willing to work as hard as necessary to keep a roof over his head. Some men are looking for a women not because of a solid relationship built on love, trust and respect, but for sex, money and someone to take care of their stuff for them.
I've encountered the same thing with women my age that are looking for someone to pay their bills, buy them things and shoulder someone else's burden. I keep most things organized and definitely have to clean the dishes within a day of using them. A guy should always clean up before his date comes over and it's not at all hard to avoid hitting the edge of the toilet seat. One of my friends is like this and I make sure I never have to go to the bathroom or get hungry while I'm over there, yet he has a gorgeous girlfriend and I always wonder why women put up with it.

[alecto]

oh hun, you dont have to wonder about me putting up with that - I DONT!! The jerk even called me last night so I asked him how he was doing and he tells me he resumed drinking beer with meds less than a day out of surgery and as I was trying to converse with him he says "You're talking, you are still talking!" He wanted me to shut up so I did one better, I hung up. This from a guy who claims he puts God first. Serves me right for caring about someone.

Hurry, some of you sweet guys, please move to my area!

[lunamor]

Sorry to hear about your bad experience, Alecto - it seems like one of those "Fantasy vs Reality" scenes!

[somethingnew16]

Alecto,
Sounds like a real jerk and I'm suprisingly not shocked to hear of your experience. I know many guys that are exactly like that. It's disgusting.

With the amount of success I have read in this thread, I'm starting to get a little pessimistic about this site. Hopefully, I will have a success story soon that can balance out this thread. Keeping my fingers crossed . . .

[pn6666]

Hi, I meet a very nice woman on the site but she decided the age gap was too much, I was ready but she backed out. Still hoping. P

[pn6666]

I am flirting with three very nice women and hope one will turn out to be a really relationship - but some women are really turned off if the age gap is too much (for me age is a number)