Cougars and Virgins....

[majormvd]

Its probably gonna embarrass me to say this, but im a virgin (21) I was just wondering what cougars thought about being in a relationship with a guy who hadnt "been" with a woman before, is it a problem or is it something that can be overcome later in the relationship, bear in mind that I DONT think being with an woman is all about sex. I just wondered if women would accept being with a younger guy who doesnt have any experience and how it would affect the relationship/marriage....

[majormvd]

I sometimes feel less confident because of that, not to mention that as much as id love to find ms. right, im affraid it could be the one hurdle that could cause problems, I hate the way half the guys on this site seem like theyre only in it for sex,

[buni]

I'm not sure about other cougars, but as for myself that fact wouldn't bother me and I know some women would love to be with you..

[majormvd]

Thanks, for whatever its worth, that really does give me a glimmer of hope + a little boost of confidence. T H A N K Y O U . . . .

[buni]

Exactly what tarni said..don't give it away. save it for someone special...

[energeticmale]

Don't worry about it. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21 and if it's not with the right person then it's very awkward and not fun at all and looking back I wish I had held onto it for a longer period of time until I knew that I really liked someone, but I do know from experience that some older women are looking for a guy with skills in the bedroom.

[majormvd]

What Tarni says is right. I kept asking myself if I really just wanted to have sex with an older woman, but I realised that Id rather wait for the right woman, as difficult as it is for me, I know that eventually, when I do meet the right (cougar), my first time will be with the woman that I love, for that I think it will be even more special for both of us, maybe even more passionate too, sorry, I know that probably sounds really cliched....

[buni]

No, it sounds wonderful. I wish more people thought like that.

[majormvd]

Thank you....

[romandog]

I also think it depends on what YOU want out of it. Are YOU looking to be some cougars boy toy, if so, then it might be a problem, but that does not seem to be what you are looking for so I think the type of women you are looking for would probably not care if you have had sex yet.