whats the worst rejection you've gotten?

[in2big]

Guys, when you have asked out an older woman and it turns out she was not interested, was she rude about it? how did she respond? please tell your worst stories LOL.

Women, same question for you, when you asked out a younger guy and he wasnt interested, was he rude about it? have you ever been insulted by a younger guy for asking him out.

Someone told me that alot of older women get offended if a much younger guy likes them.

[klasik]

The odds that they are flattered you asked are greater than them being offended. On the otherhand, the odds that a younger guy gets disgusted at an older woman hitting on them infront of their buds are greater than them enjoying it.

So you think it's easier for a younger guy to get an older girlfriend than vice-versa?

I ve asked a few mature women out and 8 out of ten times i get the answer sorry your too young i have children your age,

So i joined this site to see if i could find a mature woman who would enjoy a younger guy for a serious relationship,i can understand older women who may think they just wanna have a one night stand but not everyones the same,

so come on theres gotta be a beauty on here for me from london

[klasik]

I ve asked a few mature women out and 8 out of ten times i get the answer sorry your too young i have children your age.

Have to wonder though, is the woman really opposed to this on the basis of age? Or is she just not attracted and she's using age as an excuse? A lot of times people will scream "No way!" before they've even tried something, but then once they get exposed it turns out they like it. So maybe some of these older women don't normally date younger men, but they would change their mind once they met a charming one.

[buni]

I used to not like younger guys, but I started getting to know a few of them and I found out that they treat me with more respect, they don't judge me, they usually aren't jaded and I usually have more in common with younger men. I will never go back to older men because a lot of them think they are superior to me and are so very quick to judge.

I try not to be rude to anyone. I answer all of the messages I get unless someone has been disrespectful ,which usually doesn't happen often.

I don't like how rejection feels so I try not to reject someone unless we just have nothing in common or there isn't any interest. I don't go by looks alone either.

I've never really been rejected on these sites, but one thing that does frustrate me is when I am talking to someone and I open up and share a lot with them, we talk for a few days and they tell me how much they like me and want to get to know me a lot more etc...then they either just stop talking to me or they get all moody and depressed on me and won't answer my messages or they don't want to share what is going on in their life with me..
If I am going to open up to you and share my life with you then you better do the same with me because it feels like rejection to me when you close up...
Hope this makes sense.

[vitality]

Actually tarni, you're so right.
I tried to contact an older woman once in a sincere clean mail.
And all she said was she was flattered and that I was pretty good looking in her opinion but she just wasn't into young men.

[buni]

yup..eventually someone will

[argentinadream]

Hi
the only younger guys I have been rude to are younger guys who A. Do not post photos or data and then come on to me - so they are hiding and not playing fair. B. Younger guys who treat me like a street walker because I like younger guys - some how that equates to not wanting to be treated with respect or respectfully and like I am a one-night stand.

The worst responses I have had are from older men who know I prefer younger men and then are angry or intimidated. I have received a few angry emails lecturing me and telling me I am crazy and what am I thinking for considering younger men.

So at times it feels like I get it from both ends: younger guys treating me disrespectfully and older guys jeering me????

[martinix3]

the worst rejection i ever got was:

"GET OUT OF MY CLOSET!"

jk lol, but i have typically gotten the "sorry but you are too young".

nothing too bad.

[martinix3]

it disappoints me but i can't let it get to me.


gotta keep moving on!

i used to be so scared of rejection, though!