New here looking for help

[jamma37]

I know theres 2 other forums about this but i need something for me in specific. Im from North Carolina, and ive looked up women to talk to from the NC and SC region and have had no luck as of yet. I havent done anything "wrong" i dont think. Just introducing myself and everything. Maybe I need to find someone thats not in NC or SC because there seems to only be a few. Can anyone give me some tips? Maybe some older women out there who can tell me what there looking for? or maybe some that would be interested and talking?

Thanks!

[cherryaa]

Hi Sweetie,

If you message me sometime, would be happy to talk to you about where a lot of us are coming from and give you some tips.

Cheers

[mslisa]

Originally Posted by jamma37

I know theres 2 other forums about this but i need something for me in specific. Im from North Carolina, and ive looked up women to talk to from the NC and SC region and have had no luck as of yet. I havent done anything "wrong" i dont think. Just introducing myself and everything. Maybe I need to find someone thats not in NC or SC because there seems to only be a few. Can anyone give me some tips? Maybe some older women out there who can tell me what there looking for? or maybe some that would be interested and talking?

Thanks!

I think it's like "real life", it takes time. It sounds like you're off to a good start. Get involved here. Read what people are saying. Contact ladies that look interesting/share common interests, etc. Another of our /many/ charms is a cougar's conversational skills - she'll help, just be yourself.

I would not let geography be the /only/ consideration, either. Admittedly, distance relationships are difficult. I know from experience. But, you wouldn't want to overlook someone /really/ great because of their zip/country code. Right?
Just a few suggestions. Good luck!