Stumbled upon an amazing Cougar Haunt!

[beaw]

Hello everyone,

I know this is a very unlikely place for most members to ever be in. Let me just share it anyway. The place is a hangout in Ibadan, a city in the South Western part of Nigeria. It's called City Centre Hotel.

I don't think it was originally planned to be a cougar joint but the owner happens to be a free spirited cougar with an infectiously magnetic personality.

Naturally the most fantastic nights are Fridays, Saturdays and Sundays.

The evening starts slow with regular club music being enjoyed by a more or less regular club crowd. But the excitement heightens after midnight, when boys start trooping in. This is followed by the entrance of an impressive array of relaxed, no-holds-barred and confident cougars!

I was told that its a place where the cougars enjoy an atmosphere that makes them feel much younger and the boys gain maturity in loving, understanding and nonjudging arms of maturity personified.

It's an amazing place! I've only vistied just once and in my late 30s, I didn't get much attention! But that was alright - I was there all night enjoying the drinks, the music and the undeniably vibrant and obviously mutually beneficial connections between the unsure young and the relaxed mature, spiritedly repelling jadedness and blaseness!

One thing is certain. That was definitely a first of many more visits for me!

[bayridgebabe]

Beaw, that place sounds amazing. Wish there was one like that closer to me "O) I know there are a few if not many places where the older women (cougars) frequent & the younger guys visit too. There is a place that's suppose to be close to me & was written about in a magazine article. Just never had the nerve to actually go check it out for myself. Maybe when the girls comes to visit me in NY the week of July 25th, we'll check it out (grinning)

[houstoncougar]

We are so there!!! Your place sounds great to beaw and I can't imagine you not having anyone paying attention to you one of the most sincere guys on here ever!

[phxgirl1]

Just because you're in your late 30's doesn't mean that you aren't wanted by an older woman. We are out there that prefer men your age and no doubt if you keep frequenting that club you will be found.

Good luck!

[tiffanyfontaine]

You seem like a wise man. The cougars in Nigeria are lucky to have you to appreciate them.

[beaw]

Aaaw, thanks, HC . I guess maybe because it was my first night and I really didn't mingle much.

Phxgirl1, I'm so sure of that - which is why I intend to keep going there.

It was very intriguing considering the very conservative culture of most African older women. I guess it's a place where you can let your hair down and be real without looking over your shoulder and wondering if you're commiting some cultural taboo!

Hey Tiffany. Thanks . . . from the very bottom of my heart. I sure envy those guys in Southern California. This is not meant to be flattery, please. It's a genuine feeling, straight from the heart!