Australia!!!!! Sydney

[jamezgenuine]

Hi there any cougars around sydney for a lonely boy... I am 24 years old I got told I'm very cute... I met on this website... and had several experiences with mature women... I know what they want and I know what I can offer...

I could send you my picture?? Try me

sydney.australia@hotmail.com

Hope to hear from you bye

[lynda]

Hello and welcome to the forum. You will find that posting a pic will get you more responses and the ladies are not going to email you for a pic. Tell us more about yourself. Good luck.

[wetnwild]

Hi and welcome to the forums!! Lynda is right. I wonder why so many guys come on here and think we women are going to email all of them just to see their pic? What if all of us women did that? How many of you guys would be blowing up our email boxes asking for our pics? I don't mean to be rude, just trying to keep it real here. If there is no initial attraction, no one has a reason to email anyone, correct? So please post your pic and jump on into the forum discussions!

[jamezgenuine]

all I can say: both are very hot!! hahah sadly I live in Australia

Quite true though I didn't mean to be rude at all

Well I'm currently studying at University and hadd previous relationships with some teachers..

The reason I did not attach any pictures... well mainly for privacy. I would be embarass if someone sees me on this website.

But again I am happy to share anything...

Drop me a line bye

[wetnwild]

Thanks for the compliments Jamez, but now you raise another question. WHY don't you want anyone to know you are on this site? Is it something you are embarrassed about or ashamed of? See, this is how I see it. If someone you know is on this site and they see your pic, well then why are THEY are on this site? Obviously they have the same interests as you, so why is it such a problem? I know I am picking on you, on this thread, because SO many guys do exactly what you do, with no pic and all. But I am never going to contact anyone who has no pic up and I would bet that at least 99% of the women on here feel the same way. And then the guys get discouraged because no women are talking to them so they leave!! Its a vicious cycle and is easily remedied with a simple pic or two.

[jonm87]

but he is cute!!!! haha funny stuff

[jamezgenuine]

Wetnwild ( I like this name...)

I'm cool, I know you are not picking on me.

And all ur arguments are right.

However one thing: We are currently living in a society which does not tolerate certain things. Some may get offended others chocked.

Now, when you said: If someone you know is on this site and they see your pic, well then why are THEY are on this site?

Yea true but what if that person tells people, lol, my uni (college in US lol) has about 80 000 students.. and I know a lot of guys checking out websites like that..
If they see me, what would they do lol --> well pretty obviously spreading rumours. Just for fun so it will kill my reputation. Don't get me wrong we all care about our own reputation, denying this is lying

Now, by doing this, it increases the probability that eventually some people which you don't want them to know this will find out.

And I don't want to justify my actions; why and how; I have to work this out not them I'm more fine with it.

And for jonm87 lol funny guy with a funny pic... what are you trying to proove, you're the cool guy holding a beer huh

[wetnwild]

Originally Posted by jamezgenuine

Wetnwild ( I like this name...)


If they see me, what would they do lol --> well pretty obviously spreading rumours. Just for fun so it will kill my reputation. Don't get me wrong we all care about our own reputation, denying this is lying

Well, jamez, that just may be one of the BEST things about getting older. See, I do not worry about my "reputation". I could honestly give a S H I T what anyone else thinks of me being on this site or my dating preferences. EVERYONE that knows me well, including ALL of my co-workers know that I only date younger guys. The guys my age at work (and there are many) give me good-natured teasing about it. And when a hot new YOUNG guy starts there (like last week, and oh thank you Lord, he sits right NEXT to me) these guys just look over at me and smile. I'm so happy that I can be myself and I don't have to worry about my "reputation". Some of these guys even try to help me. One of the younger guys (who is married, and sits on the other side of this new guy) asked him in front of me the other day how old he was. When the guy said he was 26 (I already had his age pegged, btw) the other guy just looked at me with a big grin on his face.

But I will tell you, I would NEVER date a guy that would worry about ME "ruining his reputation". Obviously, with what I've just said above, we would not make a good match.

[lunamor]

You give importance to those values by closeting yourself - you're part of the problem. I don't think you'll find too many women who will respect your hangup.

[susanlb50]

Ladies don't even bother, he's obviously not here for a relationship, we know why he is here...if he is afraid to be seen on here then ya'll know he would be ashamed to be seen in public with any of us...all I can say is good luck and next!!