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05-30-2010, 05:56 AM
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 85% of young men (18 - 26) date mature women for sex and relationships will never last long. Because eventually this young little man will grow up and his interior instinct after a certain age, I believe 30, tells him it is time to settle down with a woman from his age. Why? because this little grown up kid now has the need to procreate a "real" family with kids and anytime he will go out, he doesn't want to be look at. I am 32 and my wife is 56. Why? Because this is how society works. Also, young men chase mature women just for sex. Out of 10 relationships probably 1 0r 2 will last over 2 years. And only 1 may survive after 3 years. Which is failure ratio of 8/10 times - 80% Testosterone dictates male sexual behaviour, and the need for sex diminishes around 30 for male, in some case it has been shown that around 30 years old women express now the need to "have some fun". Now your little story is amusing - But the 26 years guy only thinks sex when he sees you - what else would he think about? he is married. Now ask all those mummy boys if they are ok dating a woman; older than their mum. Why denying it, guys are all here for sex nothing else and for you susanlb50 - I wish you good luck too lol  |
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05-30-2010, 07:44 AM
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Also, I would love to know where you got your "statistics" from. If you're going to come on here trying to quote stats like that either back them up with where you got them from or keep them in the trash, where they belong. And since you think that "all guys are here for sex" you certainly let the cat out of the bag on why YOU are here! |
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05-30-2010, 01:07 PM
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Yes I am sorry I misread your story - No need to assume - it was directed to you  But that's ok - where do I get my statistics? lol look around you - you weren't born yesterday. Are you genuinly naive or pretending to be? 90% of the guys here are looking for sex.. come on don't pretend you did not know that. Why do you think young guys are attracted to mature women huh. Seriously, I mean seriously lol And yes I am part of these 90% I won't deny it - but you already knew that since my first post didn't you. |
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05-30-2010, 08:04 PM
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No Jamez, I wasn't born yesterday, nor am I naive. I know that MOST of the guys on here are only looking for sex. However, having said that, I am talking about your SPECIFIC stats that you quote above - "85% of men aged xxx are only dating mature women for sex and it won't last". "out of 10 relationships only 1 or 2 will last over 2 years and maybe 1 will survive after 3 years". These are not statistics Jamez. These are numbers that you apparently just pulled out of your a$$. Which means they are full of S H I T. All of us women know that most of the guys on here are only looking for sex. We also know there are a few good ones out there and we make it our mission to try and find those few. So all I am saying is don't go around quoting "statistics" that you have no way of backing up. It makes you look a bit, uh, ignorant. And no, I did not know from your first post that you were only looking for sex. I guess I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt a bit too much. Does that make me naive? Maybe. But I don't ever want to get so jaded that I miss out on a good guy somewhere. So now that we all know that's what you're looking for all I can say is good luck to you. |
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05-31-2010, 08:56 AM
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| *applauding WW*  I doubt that any real research has been done to produce the "facts" that James so confidently cites! If he's quoting from some source, bring it on!
__________________ You can only be young once, but you can be immature forever! |
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05-31-2010, 05:25 PM
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meh your lack of education thrills me BTW I wasn't quoting you as Naive as in stupid. lol. here are some resources: Good reading Allendorfer Anderson, G., Women dating & Insights. 2006 American Psychological Association Helium: Where Knowledge Rules Voo, J., Older women with younger men: Can it work?. 2007 New options for love and Romance Links can be found at cnn.com Cunningham, D,. Applied statistics center: drawn from census 2001 Relationships: Young/Old Podunk: The power of place Patricia Tjaden & Nancy Thoennes, U.S. Dep't of Just., NCJ 181867 Consequences and outcomes American Bar Association |
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05-31-2010, 09:30 PM
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It's my impression that most men chase women of all ages for sex - period. "Out of 10 relationships probably 1 0r 2 will last over 2 years. And only 1 may survive after 3 years. Which is failure ratio of 8/10 times - 80%" How was this information gathered, and what were the sources? By "relationships" what do you mean - marriage or other? Either way, how does that compare to the general population? Relationships are crashing and burning everywhere, at every age.
__________________ You can only be young once, but you can be immature forever! |
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05-31-2010, 09:50 PM
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God I'm bored already....If I wanted statistical quotes I'd date a statistician....I don't really give a flying **** what your statistics say or mean to you or anyone else...I'm here for me, and guys like you are so transparent it's easy to swerve you and find the genuine guys, whether I'm 50 or 20 there are guys out there looking for NSA fortunately I am smart enough to tell the difference...and please don't tar everyone with the same brush there are some amazing guys on this site and in this forum who can actually hold there own and are looking for a whole lot more. So good luck and goodbye....
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06-01-2010, 07:03 AM
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06-01-2010, 03:24 PM
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WW, maybe he was referring to me.
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