i'm new here!! italian guy in london ;)

[italian84]

hi to all the beautiful women on this website!
i've just joined to the community and i really hope to know you more and meet you!

i'm an italian guy, 25 yo...i LOVE women older then me, so i think this is the right place for me!

so...what are waiting for?! write me!!

sweet kisses to you!!

[tiffanyfontaine]

Hello Mr. Italian guy,

Welcome to the website. It's commendable and encouraging that you "love" older women. However. . .

I don't know about the other ladies on Go Cougar, but I need a bit more of a personal invitation than you simply announcing you're available. It's the equivalent of someone in a crowded theater I've never met shouting out, "Hey, here I am--jump on my bones!"

Also, I would need to learn more about you before I write to a complete stranger. That is why profiles were invented. The more thoughtful and detailed information you give on a profile, the better chance you have of someone writing to you. I need to know if we have anything in common and whether you suit my taste as far as a potential dating partner. Does this make sense to you?

You're statement that you "love women older than yourself" was meant, I'm sure, to be flattering, but it's isn't for me. It implies that older women are sort of a collective, without individuality. We're all individuals. I doubt you love all older women--some of us, are, dare I say it, are high maintenance, riddled with drama and even as sassy as 20-something females. I don't mean to be harsh, but please think about what I'm telling you.

Lastly, you present yourself to the site rather cavalierly, as if simply by telling the women on this site you're available that we are so desperate we'll come a'runnin'. We aren't desperate. I mean no disrespect to you, Mr. Italian guy, but, please, re-think your approach.

[violet]

Originally Posted by italian84

so...what are waiting for?! write me!!

Welcome Italian guy....maybe you're being a bit tongue in cheek here, yeah? Tell us more!

[italian84]

ehi first of all nice to meet u!

about my previous message, i never thinked that older women are a collective without an own personality and i never thinked you are desperates women!

but yes, this is my first day in this community and i have to complete my profile with more infos about me.
anyway i'm 25 yo, now in london for a couple of months to improve my english and to understand if can be my place next year. i'm graduated in economy and i'm going to attend a master so i'm thinking on london aswell.

i perfectly know that is a little bit harder to get in touch with a woman older then me, i have no problems with girls of my same age...but i like older! ..and sometimes, when i'm in the pub or in a club, i have more success with my similar respect then the older women.
so i hope this website can help me to know some interesting women.

my idea is that through a profile i can understand something of the other person, but not all! a date is important to know more about that, it can be good or not, i'm only saying that i'm a serious guy who's looking for a nice lady!

[italian84]

i'm from naples!! and you?
i think in italy is very difficult to meet older women!

[italian84]

eheheh....now i'm in london, it's my first time here and i hope i'll be lucky!

[tiffanyfontaine]

Mr. Italian Man,

Thanks for your nice note. I hope you enjoy the site and that you took my suggestions
as only helpful hints. You seem like a sincere and interesting man.

What is your first name?

[tiffanyfontaine]

By the way, there are several lovely ladies who live in London on this site.
So, you should meet lots of seasoned women on Go Cougar from your area!

Good luck!

[italian84]

ehi tiffany my name is Claudio! ....really thank you about your suggestion, i hope they can help me!

about the ladies in london, i'm looking forwars to meet them!
kissssssss