New -ish - to this site

[phxgirl1]

Welcome ladies!

[redfyre]

Thank you all for your welcome here.

Originally Posted by dandino85

I think our male members would appreciate a bit more information about yourself, but whenever you're ready

More information? Hmmm. Well, I'm an Aussie, 48, currently living in sunny Queensland. I'm a personal trainer. I also am currently in university, pursuing a double degree in psychology and exercise science. I am very, very much into health and fitness and wellness.

Obviously, I prefer younger men...always have. My first was when I was twenty-five, and he was nineteen. Personally, I think it's more about maturity than age - and if you haven't got it when you're young, age alone won't invest you with it. In general, I find men my age and older, very self-entitled, controlling, condescending. And I really have no desire to be with someone who is planning the end of his life when I am still living mine full-on. I'll think about retirement when I am dead.

Is that what you wanted to know? There's a whole lot more I could say, but won't, in the interest of brevity.

[sexy_pleasure]

Well, well, well!
Thank you for all the welcomes, this is nice.
I'm an accountant. Live in the DC area and travel lots for work.
Love younger men as they make me laugh and really enjoy life. I'm from Venezuela and work out all the time, keep my self in great shape, and i consider my self very good looking. I' in my early 40's.
Looking forward to meeting with lots of people!

Yes... Real picture will come soon!

[wetnwild]

Originally Posted by redfyre

In general, I find men my age and older, very self-entitled, controlling, condescending. And I really have no desire to be with someone who is planning the end of his life when I am still living mine full-on. I'll think about retirement when I am dead.

ROTFL, I LOVE this redfyre, I couldn't agree more! Welcome to the forum ladies!

[alice_57]

Hi Everyone, I just wanted to raise an issue. I signed onto this website because I would like to meet some new people but pretty much most of the responses I'm getting are from people who are looking for casual/initimate encounters. I'm getting fed up of receiving instant messages from men who start off making normal conversation for the first few minutes before progressing to making suggestions of a more sexual nature. I do close it there with them or close down the message windows but am I unlucky or am I on the wrong site?

[vita]

Originally Posted by alice_57

Hi Everyone, I just wanted to raise an issue. I signed onto this website because I would like to meet some new people but pretty much most of the responses I'm getting are from people who are looking for casual/initimate encounters. I'm getting fed up of receiving instant messages from men who start off making normal conversation for the first few minutes before progressing to making suggestions of a more sexual nature. I do close it there with them or close down the message windows but am I unlucky or am I on the wrong site?

I'd say neither. This is a very, very common experience for women on here but many would say that, among all these typical approaches, are some genuine men interested in getting to know women in a less sleazy way.

Personally I stay for the other women (and, more recently, for some guys who've got stuff to say) on the forums....so I think you've found the right place for the potential for real engagement

I don't know of any other similar website which is not worse in terms of sleaze and expectations.