Newbie cougar bait from Charlotte NC, be gentle.

[citadel1986]

Well, honestly don't know what I'm doing, but I am willing to learn. Maybe I'm just tired of the twenty something drama, or more than likely I find older women really really attractive. Maybe both, probably the latter. But yeah, I'm in Charlotte, and I'm on the site. I'll suck it up and be honest and say I wouldn't be opposed to a casual encounter, but a nice date and maybe something beyond that would be great. I think I've got a great sense of humor, but even more than that, I pride myself on knowing when to shut up and listen. Hmm, after that it's the usual stuff, cooking, movies, books, playing bass (poorly), and late night cruises in my car. PM me if you guys feel like it.

[cherryaa]

Hiya

Nice intro ( is that gentle enough? LOL) .

You will probably find you need to do a tad more chasing than just waiting for an avalanche of PM's but don't be shy in emailing someone , the chat button is there to press too . Good luck

[lynda]

Hello and welcome....
You did not mention your age. The best thing to do is jump in and let everybody know you are around.

[lunamor]

Hi, welcome and congratulations on risking

[citadel1986]

Originally Posted by lynda

Hello and welcome....
You did not mention your age. The best thing to do is jump in and let everybody know you are around.

In hindsight, that makes a ton of sense. Ok well, I'm 23. As for waiting for PM's cherryaa, thanks for the advice, I'll put the chat to some use.

[mslisa]

Welcome to the hunting ground!

[phxgirl1]

Welcome citadel1986.

I like the "after that it's the usual stuff, cooking, movies, books, playing bass (poorly), and late night cruises in my car" part of you. Also the "nice date and maybe something beyond that" is really nice. I'd listen to your terrible bass playing, eat what you cooked for me and probably sit next to you as we're cruising in the car at night. Hehehe.

For myself, I prefer dating and getting to know someone before the sex part.

It seems many guys come on here and think after their intro they can just sit back and wait for the many messages and offers to arrive. It doesn't work that way, usually. Send some pm's, respond to those threads that interest you and let us get to know you. You will receive messages when people get to know you.

Enjoy your time here and good luck cutie.

[wetnwild]

Actually a better pic of you would help too. If you want the ladies to talk to you we need to SEE you. That pic is way too dark. Just sayin...

[citadel1986]

Thanks for advice phxgirl1. Too bad you're too far away for me to play a bad rendition of Gimme Shelter for you, haha. I am going to try and make myself known around here, get a feel for the forums and all that. And I added the better pic you asked for wetnwild, all the good advice so far is REALLY appreciated. Still, good to be meeting people already!