is there any cougar wants to date a sexy younger man ?

[valerie]

Originally Posted by phxgirl1

I'd like to date a sexy younger man optimist2009 but my area is full of men young and old in a college town area full of semi clothed young girls and I can't seem to get the time of day from any man.

So much for what ones wants are. Reality is a b i t c h.

OK, so there's a cornucopia of half nekkid girls in your lil' ol' college town. I would think that the boys would get jaded about that (was gonna say "hardened", but that's not necessarily a bad thing is it?) and be sniffing out something different. That's our edge.

As for you sir...yeah...too far away and I like a man with skills....as in English.

[tiffanyfontaine]

Good post phxgirl1.
I'm laughing.

[tiffanyfontaine]

phxgirl1--Perhaps some of the 20-something college guys will mature a bit in a few years. I don't know what you consider a younger man; often guys in their mid or late 30s, who I still consider younger, are looking for more seasoned women. Maybe you could keep your eyes open for some of those, you know, the ones who
married one of the tanned college girls, divorced at 30 and want a different type of woman now.

[wetnwild]

Phoenix is not a little ole college town (far from it) but we do have a very well known university right by us here. So well known that for years it has held the prestigious title of being the "Number one party school in the nation". So with that comes the "half nekkid" party girls and of course the party guys. I doubt that the guys get tired of seeing the half nekkid girls. After all they are college boys. I think the trick is finding the ones that are NOT into that. I dated one a few times that was not into the party scene. He was a law student on his way to law school after graduating from ASU. But his problem was he was SO incredibly boring. Made me feel like I was dating an OLD man and he was only 24 or 25! There has to be a happy medium somewhere!!

Oh and phxgirl - I love that "the penis cannot be moved by positive thinking" ROFLOL!!!!

[valerie]

Originally Posted by phxgirl1

I really wish that were the case Val, I really do. But, alas, they're always looking outta the corner of their eyes at the nekkid tanned girls not realizing they will have leather skin and/or skin cancer in a few short years. They leave the instant one of these nekkid chix look their way, regardless of the look. I like that nekkid spelling, btw. hehehe.

I know you're Miss Positive Val, but the penis cannot be moved by positive thinking. Can I say that? Let's see.

I shall remember these words of wisdom while on my own personal quest, because after all...if you think you learned everything there is to learn, then you've also probably done everything that you were supposed to DO...so might as well walk in front of a moving train. HA!

And thanks for the memo on the penis...it doesn't respond to ANY kind of thinking for that matter...does it? It seems to be on auto-pilot. Maybe I should spend more time shopping on the Victoria's Secret site instead of on sites that have books and electronic toys (I MEANT for my computer, dirty boys and girls) Wow...I'm really so very tired....trade shows are killer for me. Nite nite!

[scarecrow122]

Originally Posted by phxgirl1

Most of the men that are within 10-30 years of my age younger and older than me are locals from here, or are children of them. They all are locals that sit and absolutely gawk and fawn over the nekkids, knowing that their mothers, sisters, aunts and friends all turned into leather sooner or later. Mostly sooner.

There is no question in my mind as to why I have resorted to the internet to find real men that are looking for a real woman. I'm not looking for castoff men that've been rejected, I'm looking for a man that is satisfied with me for me and not settling because he can't get one of those young, hard bellied tanned, nekkid ones.

I'll wait for the rest of my life and be alone if I have to. Just my wants and opinion. Hehehe.

"good guys" so to speak are hard to come by. It seems this generation of kids and true of some adults also is all about big muscles, fast cars, and scantly clad bimbos. Looking past the few rare gems that surround them. To few are the princes of old who are willing to sweep a girl off their feet and treat them with love that has been so long lost to them. Most guys will tell you what you want to hear until they get in your pants and then their gone. Looks or age shouldnt matter, the only things that matter are words spoken from the heart. You are very beautiful and its hard to believe that anyone would overlook you.