Hello there, not sure I'm a cub

[badbanterer]

Hello ladies,

First off, I'm 51, not a cub by most people's standards but I've always been interested in mature women.

I live in Los Angeles and have often fantasized about being with the plumber or pizza delivery man to a card game of daring, assertive women if that gives you any ideas. I believe myself to be a closet exhibitionist. I once stripped for my neighbor and her friend but that's another story.

I found this site through some convoluted search for CFNM. In any case, it seems like a great place, so here I am.

I am blessed with a high metabolism so I don't have to work hard on my body and can eat pretty much anything though I try to keep it vegetarian and healthy. My photo is recent and I stay in shape.

Cheers,
Jorge

[wetnwild]

Well I can't speak for everyone, but you're definitely not a cub to me since you are older than I am. Personally, I think the word "cub" should really only apply to young guys anyway. If I were in my 60's or 70's I can't imagine calling someone who is 51 a "cub", but again that's just me.

[gypsyred]

Cubishness is in the eye of the beholder, I suppose. So, post your picture and see what happens! Welcome!

word of caution though...most of the cougars have always been drawn to younger men. As they age, the age gap betweent themselves and their guys widen.

[lunamor]

Originally Posted by badbanterer

have often fantasized about being with the plumber or pizza delivery man to a card game of daring, assertive women if that gives you any ideas

Actually it confuses me. I'm probably gonna get more information than I want to know but I'm asking anyway - what are you talking about???

[mizbehavin]

I don't get that part either, and what's CFNM?

Welcome to GC, I hope you find what you're looking for

[badbanterer]

Hi,

I uploaded a photo when I created my profile and it said it had to be approved, I have no idea how long that process takes. (can you tell me "wetnwild"?)

As for what I wrote about the delivery man. I've seen movies/commercials and or skits that have a delivery guy being manhandled (or in this case "womanhandled") by older woman for their entertainment. Typically, it is a younger man being poked and prodded by older, very aggressive women — turn on for me!

CFNM - was something a female friend of mine told me to look up. It stands for "clothed female/naked male" parties and events where the women are in charge of what goes on there.

Jorge

[lynda]

Hello and welcome to the forum. At 51 you are not a cub to me and I am 61; my last boyfriend was 30yrs younger than me. Different strokes for different folks so perhaps you might be able to find what you look for here but please do not take offense when the cougars tell you about ages. Now you are looking for parties where the ladies tell you what to do in a dominate way they are clothed and you naked???? This is a dating site for older women/younger men not for anything else. We look for someone to date and perhaps have a relationship. You are going to hear it more than once if you talk to the ladies that you need to be searching for a site that caters to your likes. Good luck...

[badbanterer]

Hi Lynda,

Thanks for the info. In my original post, I was merely indicating that I had never heard of this site and that I had found it through a circuitous search because a friend told me to look it up.

If you look at my profile, you will see that it contains what most normal profiles have with no other expectations.

[houstoncougar]

20 to 25 years younger I'd take you up on that CFNM party only I'd be the only dressed female at it telling you what to do! Oh no wait a minute my good buddy luna would be right there with me.

[badbanterer]

Hi Houstoncougar,

I understand you sentiments and they are both understandable and reasonable since there is no way to do a side by side comparison, you can only judge based on what you know. I get that.

No hard feelings.
;-d

(I will mention that the photo I uploaded wasn't from my teenage years nor some royalty free image I pulled off the web but taken 10/08. More recent photos on my facebook page.)