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[lunamor]

I don't think he meant "fat" to be offensive, not all foreigners know the artful euphemism BBW.

[top_cat]

Originally Posted by lynda

I like you TopCat.....

And I enjoy being liked.

And the translatation of "fat" in Norwegian is just as offensive here as in English, but then again I see what you mean. It isn't his first language and all, maybe a bit more understanding would be good.

hmm.. i think d word fat! Should not b consider as offensive, rather u shud b proud of who or what u are..

[lynda]

I think we have a diplomat in Dazzy...

[lunamor]

And a philosopher!

Although I'm willing to bet that most women would prefer to be called anything but 'fat' - the stigma is THAT strong.

Yea d stigma will continue to b strong unless we start aceptin who we re. Jst rememba years back in my home town where d big and plumb(orobo) ladies where d talk of d town they were proud of it,den d skiny(lepa) ones will want to add some flesh, so why not continue to b who u re n jst luk great dats all we need.

[mizbehavin]

Nope, still think he's a jerk, but thanks for the diplomacy I think a woman would rather be called anything than fat! So he can just kiss my big white butt.

P.S. Oh yeah, I"m back